I think everyone has a type. The men I like vary more than the women actually. I would have to say my favourite would be the dark-haired guys with baby blue eyes like Tom Welling from Smallville. I also like the Latinos. I also have to like the natural blonds. Essentially, I'm boy crazy.
As for the rest of what you said, I would never make excuses for cheating liars. Since I know what I want, I shall accept nothing less, PERIOD. As for downlows, I do not agree with that lifestyle at all. In our current time period, there is not much of an excuse to be married to women and cheating on them with dozens of men. If anyone is living like that, shame on you. If you can't give you wife the love and devotion she deserves, it's time to end it. There are no excuses, not even children.
Tim
PS- Kevin, I'm not afraid to step on toes when necessary.