Robbie feels more comfortable being with someone who tells him what to do. Alex certainly went furthest with this, but Fran, Nathan, and even to a certain extent Tom guided their respective relationships with Robbie. Conner is a nice guy, but he’s not the dominant type that Robbie seems drawn to (even if he’s not willing to admit it).
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I, on the other hand, am well aware that I’d prefer to be with someone that gently guides me without seeming to be telling me what to do. When I feel like I’m being dictated to, I get passive-aggressive. It’s not healthy and it’s usually counter-productive, so it’s a good thing I haven’t been in a relationship in over two decades!
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