My parents has these goals as naturalize citzens
"To raise a large family and to send them all to college."
"To have them choose careers that will ensure them prosperous lives"
The key words ==> prosperous lives
The ability to provide for their families.
The key words "Choose careers" was furthered defined as "Engineering, Science, Doctor, Lawyer, etc"
There wasn't any room for Teacher, Artist, Musician, Actor, Singer, Chef, etc
So every dream ... I had was crushed ... or squashed .. or discouraged I think they where all Gay (joke)
So ... I have no idea what my dreams are any more ...
?? Live with my BF