Ok well i'll admit i'm guilty for pretty much "outing" someone to my friends who already know about me. You see in my town people like to talk of who people have fooled around with and stuff, well telling my friends what i've done, immediatly it's WHO! i told them i wouldn't tell them, but they could guess to easily which sucked. So indirectly he's know as Bi to a few, Completly Gay (because they just hate him, not proof), and of course alot think he's Straight. My question is what do i do now? i'm thinking when i'm out "publicly" i'll inadvertantly out him. First i'm gona offically tell him i'm gay and that it has been getting around, second ima threaten he tells anyone i'll tell everyone about us (meaning i want to do it on my own terms, and i don't trust him).
So personaly i think it's not the persons place to out someone, i've had rumors flying about me since grade 5 that i was gay (only cuz i was a little boy who experiemented, and was seen) Kinda sucks. But whatever i delt with it, and had a very low self-esteme alot my whole life. I didn't start opening up to friends and shit untill my mom passed away. which was Grade 11 (three years ago) and now i have best friends that know, and think i'm a ton of fun because it's different.
Anyway That's my thoughts.