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I'm a Sex Worker! And a Tattoo.


ashessnow

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So I'm a sex worker.

 

Yeah.

 

"Schedule" is a funny looking word. I think its the "sch" and the "du". It looks German. Or Yiddish....Sorry...

 

I have a job now. I'm an intern in the legal department of a medical research company.

 

I got another tattoo. It's on my neck. It says "Howl." I love it. Got it on Halloween afternoon.

 

My weird mind wanders...sorry. And catchy title, no?

 

Back to the point!

 

I have no problem talking about my many sexual exploits but I have yet to really speak on my emergence onto the BDSM scene. The scene is difficult to describe if you've never seen it. But as soon as I saw real playing, not that shit I have seen in...those movies, or really in any form of popular media, I knew it was where I belonged.

 

I am a ProSub. If you know nothing, it would be best to explain it like this: a Dominatrix is a Professional female Dominant (aka ProDom) Both men and women could be ProDoms. And the opposite would be a Professional Submissive. (ProSub) So men hire me for a few hours to dominate me. Sexy, no?

 

Why?

Cause I'm good at it. Cause I like sex, and I like money. And I'm really good at it. And cause I really, really like it.

 

Is it Prostitution?

Not....really. Well...maybe. A bit. A standard example: If I was paid for a 3 hour session then we would play really hard, and not have sex. If sex occurs during the time paid for, then yes, that's prostitution. But if sex happened after the time paid, that's totally fine. Two people having sex happens all the time. Get it?

 

How much?

Depends. After a discussion of hard limits (things I or he will absolutely not do. Watersports for example, is a hard limit for me. Pee is not fun.) and if the session is fairly standard, its xxx$. DISCLAIMER: I am not trying to get "clients." Just explaining how it all works.

 

Any questions?

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Law job seems a bit fun, where is the tat on your neck? back of your neck or the side?

 

hmm and your other job sounds really fun to and hot ;) so it's a bdsm club correct? or just S&M?

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I love BDSM. I'm not a pro in any way and do it for fun.. A friend of mine runs BDSM parties and another has a 'dungeon' Both have lots of equipment I love to experiment with. I haven't been to any BDSM clubs yet because there simply aren't any but I'm hopeful that when I move to the big city I will find one.

 

I simply can't do sub. I've tried it and I hate it. Maybe I'm just a control freak but OMG even if I say so myself I am a damn good Dom. I've been told that just my look can turn a man's blood to ice... and he was almost 7 ft tall with a beard like grizzly Adams and possible a family of squirrels in there.

 

My favourite is handcuffs and whips. I can do cats and plaits, but I like slave collars as well. I'm not into nappies and such it's just too weird. I like dark and not stupid.

 

I don't have a problem at all with making money out of it if you can. As long as you do what you want to do and are not forced into it and don't lose yourself or your self respect in it then go for it. I would be crap because I form attachments far too easily and I would't be able to be detached and professional enough and would fall in love with everyone whom I screwed. Meh

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Law job seems a bit fun, where is the tat on your neck? back of your neck or the side?

 

hmm and your other job sounds really fun to and hot ;) so it's a bdsm club correct? or just S&M?

 

Its on the right side. Like, if you wear a regular t-shirt, it comes right above the collar. I LOVE it.

 

I go to BDSM clubs but I don't work out of them. Just go to have fun/show off/meet potential clients. And its all part of the same thing. (BD=Bondage/Discipline DS=Dominance/Submission SM=Sadomasochism) But they all get blurry depending on what you're into.

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I love BDSM. I'm not a pro in any way and do it for fun.. A friend of mine runs BDSM parties and another has a 'dungeon' Both have lots of equipment I love to experiment with. I haven't been to any BDSM clubs yet because there simply aren't any but I'm hopeful that when I move to the big city I will find one.

 

I simply can't do sub. I've tried it and I hate it. Maybe I'm just a control freak but OMG even if I say so myself I am a damn good Dom. I've been told that just my look can turn a man's blood to ice... and he was almost 7 ft tall with a beard like grizzly Adams and possible a family of squirrels in there.

 

My favourite is handcuffs and whips. I can do cats and plaits, but I like slave collars as well. I'm not into nappies and such it's just too weird. I like dark and not stupid.

 

I don't have a problem at all with making money out of it if you can. As long as you do what you want to do and are not forced into it and don't lose yourself or your self respect in it then go for it. I would be crap because I form attachments far too easily and I would't be able to be detached and professional enough and would fall in love with everyone whom I screwed. Meh

 

I'm definitely a control freak as well, which is why its so fun giving up that power, see? Haha, but I understand what you mean. To play for the very first time took months to be ready with this guy and even after we worked out the details, I still had someone there to make sure I was ok.

 

I love floggers. Thuddy, not stingy. And I now wear small leather cuffs full-time. Its great, cause if you know what they mean, then you know. But if you are vanilla and don't, you just think it looks cool.

 

Best thing Ive ever played with - fire. OMG. Fire-play is INTENSE. Its on the edge, but incredible.

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I have never tried fire play and anyone who knows my relationship with fire wouln't let me anywhere near them with a candle :) Not that I wouldn't love to of course... oh actually I'm trusted with the wax dripping if I keep the flame well away. I used to have BDSM candles but I can't find a supplier anymore... well not one I can afford.

 

I love wearing slave cuffs but they get in the way sometimes.

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Wax play! Mmmm. Nice.

 

And I love cuffs too. I have a nice pair of that I wear everyday. Simple. Discrete. Made of leather. I love 'em.

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