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Nephylim

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SOOOO

 

The daughters have moved out. OH GODS but it feels good to have the house to myself. Okay, so it's a bit quiet sometimes especially when, like tonight Ef is with his dad but it is blissful to clean my kitchen, do the dishes, go to bed/work/holiday and have the kitchen clean and dishes washed when I come back.

 

Never again will I have to see that teetering mound of grease and dried on tomatoe sauce. Never again will I have to wash a plate before i can eat my dinner. Never again will I have to wear a towel around me when I come out of the bathroom (well at least until Ef reaches around 13) never again will I have to queue for the shower, or close the bathroom door, or clean hair out of the plughole that isn't mine, or have strange collonies of living creatures appear in the kitchen attached to a mug that has been lying on a shelf for three months, or have the salt disappear only to reappear six months later, empty, or to smell chocolate that I can't eat or.... Well, at least not until next time... and i am sure there is going to be a next time; if not with the girls then with Ef.

 

I am sitting here having just got home from holiday, all alone. The house is dark and cold, the television is off. There is no one to talk to, no one chattering in the background. The house is silent and feels empty...

 

and GODS IS IT GOOD :) :)

 

I'm about to cook Tai green curry, with quorn and I am going to eat it with cous cous mixed with garlic and spring onions and garlic and herb croutons on top. Usually if I want to eat something like this I have to cook another meal as well for everyone else. Life is good :)

 

Yeah yeah I know... vampire.... garlic.. What can I say? I love the stuff

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Y_B

Y_B 634

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I know that feeling all too well.

I never get time alone :(

 

Go crazy! Jam it up and dance like nobody's watching cuz...nobody's watching! Masturbate openly in the living room, pass gas loudly while eating dinner, drain the blood on a chipmunk in your kitchen, ahh the possibilities.

 

I wouldn't be able to handle the dark, cold and quiet though. I need lighting, warmth and background noise (almost at all times)

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Marzipan

Marzipan 963

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:2thumbs: Partyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

You deserve to enjoy yourself to the fullest my dear! Home is supposed to be a place where you can be you and do the things you want to do. I so can relate with you. When I was with my ex, even when he didn't actually live with me more than 2-3 weekends/month, he still managed to controll me and the way I wanted to live under my own roof. Now... pure bliss to do the stuff I want to do. Actually my inner bohemic hippy sloppy lazy cozy has been spiralling out of control the past month :lol: , but who cares!

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Nephylim

Nephylim 14,881

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HAHAHAHA

 

Yang.... OH YEAH!!!! Well maybe not the chipmunk ;)

 

Maria... I sooooo empathise with the bohemic hippy sloppy lazy cozy... I SOOO like that style of living.

old bob

old bob 321

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Too much times with too many people...

I sympathise with you and hope you will enjoy your lonliness.

But sometimes, be too long alone has also its bad sides.

Take your time, "pluck the day", be yourself.

I wish you long long days of happiness and contentment :great:.

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phana14

phana14 107

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Welcome back Nephy! :wub:

 

Where did you go? 0:)

What did you do!? :devil:

 

What did you SEE/ENJOY? TALK TO ME for s---'s sake! :ranger: :2hands:

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Nephylim

Nephylim 14,881

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I went to Kidwelly with a friend. What did I do? I lazed around a lot, watched sunsets, drank wine, played guitar hero in the arcades, counted over a thousand little yellow tickets which ef exchanged this morning for two teddies and a piggy bank, walked, ate too much, got a taste for Newcastle Brown bottled beer, drooled over a really sexy bartender, bemoaned the fact that apart from the really sexy bartender there was neither talent nor eye candy to be seen... no totty watching for me, I'm afriad, which was probably just as well as my son was with us :)

 

Bob... I like to be among people and am a gregarious person BUT... too much is too much and I LOVE my solitude sometimes. These are rare moments as there is always something going on in this house. It's nice to be able to do whatever I want although, of course, having the ability to do what I want means that I have no actual desire to do anything but what I would have done if I had not been alone... except for the meal :)

 

Thank you for your best wishes darling and I wish you the same. :wub:

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Bleu

Bleu 535

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Enjoy your newly-found freedom :)

I'm sure the girls will come and visit, and that will make for nice opportunities. In the meantime, what about some Me Me Me time for you, heh? :D

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Cia

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Your dinner made me hungry. I am sitting here in my brief hour of alone time today, appreciating and cherishing it, and feeling one with you. Then I realize that your girls are grown and gone and yet they came back. Does that mean mine are going to come back? :blink: Okay, so my oldest is 7, I guess I have a long time til I have to worry about that but in the meantime, I shall do as you do and cherish it while I can. :hug: I am glad that the stress levels will be going down for you. Oh, and that you're home again! Yay!!!!

MidnightSecret

MidnightSecret 28

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<33.

awwwwh I'm glad you finally get some time alone (:

it's nice to just relax and enjoy yourself!

xoxo

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