I know I've said it to you before baby, but I will defo say it again. You are beautiful inside and out, you are gorgeous and I can't believe my luck

You will get through the gate, you are amazing and determined enough to do anything you put your mind to.

I love you and anyone else who does won't give a shit about the history behind the pic, they will love you for you.

I've got you darling

Stuby xxx

What Stu says... just take out all that lovey dovey crap

Thank you my darling. I love you too Always and Forever

I am the lucky one, for having such an amazing awesome beautiful man like you.

I know I've said it to you before baby, but I will defo say it again. You are beautiful inside and out, you are gorgeous and I can't believe my luck

You will get through the gate, you are amazing and determined enough to do anything you put your mind to.

I love you and anyone else who does won't give a shit about the history behind the pic, they will love you for you.

I've got you darling

 

Stuby xxx

Hahahaha thank you Bee Bee , I know somewhere in that you love me I'll have to tear the words apart to find it but i know its there

What Stu says... just take out all that lovey dovey crap

So, I went to check out your profile pic again and, know what... sigh. I am not going to tell you that you're beautiful... you and I both know that no matter what I say you won't believe me but I maybe you will believe that I'm not throwing up or deleting you from my list of friends

Now... do you love Stu... of course you do. Do you trust him... of course you do. Do you think he's a fool... of course you don't. Is he blind... of course not. Does he have good taste... well I've seen Jon desperate to steal his shoes and jacket so I think we can assume that is a yes. SO... would someone who is stylish and smart and posessing excellent taste choose an ugly person to love? Would someone you trust lie to you? Of course not. You're beautiful my darling and I happen to think that the profile pic you have at the moment is so much more beautiful than the other because he's real

As an aside did you really think that I really believed that the other pic was you. Come on. I've seen the real pic and I'm not stupid. So everything i've ever said to you was said to YOU and not that poor boy who isn't you.

Would it help if I told you I cried and spiralled into a pretty deep depression for a few days when i saw the pictures of me at the meet. Now I know this is stupid so there is no need to say so and this is not about me. I am telling you so that you can know you're not alone in looking at photos of yourself or the image of yourself in the mirror and wanting to cry. That doesn't mean that the image actually deserves to be cried over.

So get over it and get real. We love you no matter what you look like or how close you are to the gate... although I am sure that Stu would love you a whole lot more... on the physical side of course as he couldn't love you more inside... when you walk out of the gate and into his arms (and his trousers).

I'm sooooo proud of you for pushing that actor out of the way and letting us see behind the mask.

Blessings

bloody woman

your current pic is great. of course, the model boy was very pretty, but the real you seems to have more character than the pretty boy. just my opinion.

Aawwww Nephy what can I say I was an idiot and awww man I dont know what to say. I love you all in here. and I had days when I felt so bad about it.

Sometimes I feel like I dont deserve any of the love I feel.

From Stuby or anyone else.

All that's in my head now is getting out of here and going to Stuby. I'm going to pick him up and take him away. And just show him how much I love him and need him and want to be with him. He's my life Nephy and a part of me. So thanks again Nephy for your love and support

well i'm one gullible son of a bitch haha

I thought you guys were too... seperate but i never followed through with the thoughts.

And yes i still have the master plan to steal the shoes hehe

Very proud of you mark as is everyone else. You have come so far and there are only two more steps that you need to take...

Go on dear, embrace them All for yourself and for stu

Btw you are better looking than the model

Thanks Carrington I am so choked up by the response to this

your current pic is great. of course, the model boy was very pretty, but the real you seems to have more character than the pretty boy. just my opinion.

I never cared what sort of picture you posted in your profile since I see past it. You are such a warm and caring person that I am HAPPY to know you. You mean so much to me

This boy in this current pic, the real you, is a guy I have fell friendly in love very soon after I got to know you. Never be ashamed of who you are or what you will have to overcome. We all carry our packages, so heavier than others, but those are not the things that define us, not in my opinnion. I feel you have so much to give to others around you and one day I will give you a real hug.

Maria

Ps. You ARE a beautiful, gorgeous young man.

Awwww Marzipan Thank you awww m,an I am so choked up right now

Love you to bits Marzi always have

Okay let Quasi add his two cents in here. First off I've seen the real you so the model boy was cute but not you. Who couldn't put two and two together. Self image problems are things we all have and deal with.

Secondly anyone who gets to know you loves you. Hell, you aren't ugly. And neither is Nephy though I know what she means by not being happy with the picture one sees.

You have Stu who loves you and supports you. You have friends on here who do the same. Sometimes the best way to get to know someone is to see beyond the image they present. Sometimes a pretty package hides an ugly soul. In your case those who believed the fake picture had to get to know you anyway. Doubt you are going to see anyone go running off into the night screaming. Besides if they did there are two things to remember. 1) They are an idiot. 2) Your friends are going to hunt them down and make them stay gone.

So just relax and realize we accept you for who you are Mark. Always have and always will.

Wayne

Thank you Comic, Your words mean a lot, hell, all of them do Thanks again

Okay let Quasi add his two cents in here. First off I've seen the real you so the model boy was cute but not you. Who couldn't put two and two together. Self image problems are things we all have and deal with.

 

Secondly anyone who gets to know you loves you. Hell, you aren't ugly. And neither is Nephy though I know what she means by not being happy with the picture one sees.

 

You have Stu who loves you and supports you. You have friends on here who do the same. Sometimes the best way to get to know someone is to see beyond the image they present. Sometimes a pretty package hides an ugly soul. In your case those who believed the fake picture had to get to know you anyway. Doubt you are going to see anyone go running off into the night screaming. Besides if they did there are two things to remember. 1) They are an idiot. 2) Your friends are going to hunt them down and make them stay gone.

 

So just relax and realize we accept you for who you are Mark. Always have and always will.

 

Wayne

I like the new pic better than the old one

And I know one day you won't be afraid of the gate any more.

Hum I never looked at your picture before... and it's not really important... You're a friend and it's the most important think! And I'm sure Stu agreed with me! (just add the boy before friend) . Well Mark, you are the only one who can go to the other side and you have a reason to do it now! So it will happen You just need to be patient with yourself (I know it's difficult because we are more stricts with yourself than with other) !

And when we will be able to see you (the next GA meeting perhaps ) we are all going to hug you!

You think you got image problems. Look at my pic! I'm half-goat!

Ok, so that's not me. That James McAvoy (Brit actor) all dressed up as Mr. Tumnus from the first Narnia movie. I James McAvoy. If you ever get a chance to see "The Children of Dune" you'll see how hot James is.

It's easy to believe in you, Marky. You're the one doing the hard work. Just keep doing what you're doing. These things never happen overnight. Often it's two steps forward, then one back. But I know you'll get there.

All my love to you and Stuby!

At first I was confused by your status, then I understood.

So, I read this and here is what I have to say. Ok, Mark, you're beautiful and I wish you and Stu the best in the world. I really do.

Like everyone else that has commented, I'm glad that you took down the picture of the actor. I kinda knew that wasn't you, but I really didn't say anything. You're beautiful, and Stu is one lucky man.

I don't think you realize this yet, but you have helped me a lot these past few weeks to overcome not being afraid of what others will think of me. I'm not ashamed of who I am anymore. Well, I was hiding it. You have helped me a lot.

So, now that I've said that I will like to conclude by once again saying, I believe in you, and you're beautiful.

hugs & everything else,

Adrian

Thank you Tob A lot of people are saying the same thing. Guess I should start believing them . Thanks again

I like the new pic better than the old one And I know one day you won't be afraid of the gate any more.

Thank you Ele awww so chuffed by the response thank you

Hum I never looked at your picture before... and it's not really important... You're a friend and it's the most important think! And I'm sure Stu agreed with me! (just add the boy before friend) . Well Mark, you are the only one who can go to the other side and you have a reason to do it now! So it will happen You just need to be patient with yourself (I know it's difficult because we are more stricts with yourself than with other) ! And when we will be able to see you (the next GA meeting perhaps ) we are all going to hug you!

You think you got image problems. Look at my pic! I'm half-goat! Ok, so that's not me. That James McAvoy (Brit actor) all dressed up as Mr. Tumnus from the first Narnia movie. I James McAvoy. If you ever get a chance to see "The Children

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Awwww thank you Conner me and stuby both think the world of you, and what you say matters Thank you again

 

 

 

 

of Dune" you'll see how hot James is. It's easy to believe in you, Marky. You're the one doing the hard work. Just keep doing what you're doing. These things never happen overnight. Often it's two steps forward, then one back. But I know you'll get there. All my love to you and Stuby!

At first I was confused by your status, then I understood. So, I read this and here is what I have to say. Ok, Mark, you're beautiful and I wish you and Stu the best in the world. I really do. Like everyone else that has commented, I'm glad that you took down the picture of the actor. I kinda knew that wasn't you, but I really didn't say anything. You're beautiful, and Stu is one lucky man. I don't think you realize this yet, but you have helped me a lot these past few weeks to overcome not being afraid of

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hey Adrian Thank you I was stupid I know that now. I was so afraid that everyopne saw what I saw. As too helping you, well you are who you areand thats it. I really need to practise what I preach

 

 

 

 

what others will think of me. I'm not ashamed of who I am anymore. Well, I was hiding it. You have helped me a lot. So, now that I've said that I will like to conclude by once again saying, I believe in you, and you're beautiful. hugs & everything else, Adrian

A pic in a profile isn't really important, Mark...what always matters to me in a person is something that can't be seen from the outside and has nothing to do with his/her outward appearance...the soul...and your is undoubtably beautiful