So glad that you are that guy for someone who needs it. God bless you for being that guy.

I've never wondered, because I agree--someone needs to do it and it seems to me you do a good job. Maybe you should talk to someone about fostering

I am blessed beyond measure in my son ... and yet, I too have always been someone the younglings could come to. They know when I say "youngling" it is an endearment, that I see them as equals, as people ... you and I, we are the "dutch uncles" to those around us.

I have become the "Other Mother" to many of my daughter's friends, and even a couple people here. More power to you James, may you help many more "younglings" with your sound advice! Perhaps Irri is right - there are many mentoring programs out there and the foster system is always looking for good homes.

Being in the same boat as you James, I tend to act similarly. I consider any kid that needs help as my personal responsibility if they aren't getting the help they need. They all become my kids in a way.