I saw this comment in This or That and thought I'd use it as a blog entry.

Ieshwar said:

By the way, Graeme, for me, living in the memory of your lover is more romantic than dying for your love. Only a few die and even fewer live in their memories. But that's my opinion. I wonder if there's even someone who'll spend years in the memory of someone.

It is possible for someone to spend years in someones memories. There's hardly a day goes by that I don't think about Phil at least once. If you've read my entry entitled, "Black Friday", you know who I'm talking about. Some people you will never forget, others, you wish you could. I have both, good and not so good , memories and I cherish them all. They say you never forget your first love, and I believe it.

Jan