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What the hell?

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I know the whole dating game is just that a game. A way to find out what interests us, and what we can definately live with out. That said, why do we feel intimidated by people we find interesting? Under that intimidation, why do we take the next thing? Why not just soldier through and grow a set or two and ask the person we find interesting out?

 

My sister has this hot and cold crush on the guy that works down the way. She is too affraid to move things along, fearing rejection I guess. I can relate to that, but what I find highly confusing is how she is going on a "date" with this other guy with wonky ears; especialy since so many other better looking people have asked her out.

 

There was the guy in the blue s10. She told him sorry it was a bad time for her. Bad time? single, stuck on some guy thats just as scared as you are, or too busy talking about his girlfriend in Canada, or Germany, or wherever... She also mentioned s10 was too young for her.

 

Too young... BEH! I scoff at the notion!

 

Anyhow, this guy she is going to breakfeast with stole her number. Stole it, he asked to see her phone then he used it to call his phone under the guise of "giving her his number". How disrespectful is that? not to mention overall weird and crazy, but to steal something and then lie about it? What does this say for any future relationship?

 

There is also a slew of other crap surronding this that goes into jobs and the like.

 

It's just frustrating.

 

She needs to date more...

 

But, why him?

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Graeme
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Sounds like it might be low self-esteem. I know that was always my problem. She may not think she's good enough for these other guys, and is finding excuses why she won't date them because she's afraid she's right.

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viv

I already told you what I think, but he should be worried... he f**king stole her phone number! What kind of freaky, insert-words-here, kind of guy does that? If she likes you, she'll give it to you, IF you ask and not act like someone who needs his butt kicked by her big brother!

 

That is all...

 

Viv :wub:

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Masked Monkey

See, to me this one is easy. You don't ask someone out because then your failure to date is one or more of a myriad of things. Mostly things that you can look at in the 3rd person and not feel horrible about yourself ... other than your cowardice, but you have usually already accepted that. BUT ... if you ask HIM out, you immediately make all those fears change from 3rd person to 1st person, and they become real. What people forget is that fear of something is often worse than the thing itself ... unless it involves talking to my wife :wacko: .

 

In summary, it is based on a low self image and the fear of worsening that self image.

 

IF you ask and not act like someone who needs his butt kicked by her big brother!

 

That is all...

 

Viv :wub:

 

And all his faggy friends :P

 

:king: Dr. Mr. Snow "Snoopy" Dog

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