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Obviously Warrior, you have your own personal beliefs that I respect unconditionally. My intent here is certainly not to impugn those beliefs with that which follows.
Let's all understand that the word promiscuous has ONLY a subjectively-defined interpretation associated with it. Who is doing the defining? Who's passing judgement on those who seem to have a view that is not so possibly skewered by upbringing and/or the age of the day?
By the definition given here of being "promiscuous", I will have to admit that during my early gay life, I was very "bad".
Going to the bars 5 to 7 days a week, seeking a "trick" (today's term is "hook-up" I think) that MAYBE, MAYBE would turn into a relationship. This was the '70's, early '80's folks, pre-AIDS, -pre-diseases that will KILL you.
At that time, the reality was (as it is now) that Man is a sexual beast of the simplest order, not constrained by the "moral order" of any day. "GET OFF" was/is (still) the phrase of the day, in Gay life as well as Straight life:
"OMG, he's/she's f**kin gorgeous!!" "Will she put out?" or "Is he a top or a bottom?"
As gross as that may sound to some of the gay youngsters here today, it's an irrefutable truism of gay/straight lives of times long-ago, as well as today.
All I can say to you young folks here, respectfully of course, is that "you weren't there." That you "have no frame of reference, so how is it possible for you to accurately and fairly judge those for whom you deem "promiscuous"?
The fact is that you can't.
You have no empirical data to back up your claims, and have only sad but true information of the post-sexual-revolution, and AIDS-infested times for you to draw data from.
I won't judge anyone for being "disgusted" by anonymous sex. The fact is, since you've never or rarely had it, you can hardly be in a position to pass a valid and lucid judgement against it, unless of course, it comes from pre-conceived societal-imposed "moral" standards.
That's not an insult to you wonderful youngsters, it's just a fact to which the available data leads us.
Pre-AIDS, most gay boys I encountered were indeed promiscuous sluts (as defined in this thread). I would be willing to bet that when a sure-fire cure for AIDS is developed, I think the term "promiscuous gay man" will lose some of its negative potency.
Steve³