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oh my gosh! I feel so sorry for that poor kid, he sounds like he really has some problems. I'd say he needs the best therapy money can buy! I probably would tell Chaz too, but I'm sure you know best. Anyway take care and be careful. Kevin

Hey everyone! So I like to try to be able to take care of all the normal everyday stuff around the house. Whether it's changing a sink, or cooking a five course meal; it bugs me if I can't do it and "most/many people can". So anyway I realized tonight that there's a gap the size of a fitted sheet standing between me and self-reliance. Actually I knew about it all along, but usually I just get frustrated, force it into an ugly, sloppy fold and promise I'll ask someone to teach me how before the next time I have to do it. So tonight I'm seizing the moment......getting to the point: Could someone please tell me how to properly fold a fitted sheet? Thanks and have an awesome day everyone, Kevin

So today was okay I guess. I was at work and around 11:00 I got this call from the apartment complex I was interested in, in Houston. Turns out they were doing the final bits of paper work, before they placed me on the "priority waiting list", and they had a problem with some of my information. Namely that I didn't currently clear three times the amount of rent per month. I of course politely said that 1) I was pretty sure I could afford the place on my current income because it's not that much more than I'm paying now, and I always have money left over anyway. I'm compulsive about saving and budgeting; I even opened an IRA last year Nevermind that I haven't actually started my real career yet, it's never too early to think about retirement right? And anyway 2), and most relevant as far as I was concerned, it was pointless to look at how much I'm making now anyway, since there's no chance I'll still be working there after I move anyway. And of course I should theoreticaly be making more in whatever job I do find, now that I'll actually have a college degree. But still the gentleman, who, while pleasent, sounded unnervingly like a recording, insisted that I'd still have to document evidence of other money if I wanted to get approved. So I got his fax number, and then proceeded to worry about whether or not I'd be able to sort this mess out the whole time I was at work. On the bright side one my coworkers (whom I hadn't previously mentioned here) said I seemed quiet and asked if everything was ok. She's really great, as well as being really fun and cool, she always notices everyone's moods. So anyway I felt a little better then, and tried to tell myself that I would be able to sort it out and even if I couldn't I'd figure something else out anyway. So then I went home and gathered some information (I'm also compulsive about keeping everything in organized files, so it wasn't that hard to locate). Then I headed over to Kinko's to fax it. Funny thing about this particular kinko's, I've only been there twice, once today and once 6 or 7 months ago, but neither time did I actually have to pay for anything (Just as well since obviously I need to start saving up for rent ). The first time I couldn't work the copy machine so the guy just did it for me and told me not to worry about it. This time I couldn't work the fax machine, so the guy (I'm pretty sure this was a different one, I'd have remembered this one ) did it for me, then for some reason, which I didn't quite follow, he told me not to worry about paying. It was some sort of issue with the register I believe. Anyway it was funny that neither time they actually wanted me to pay lol. And it was also cool getting free stuff from a cute guy. Anyway so I got home and called them back, and he said it would take a little while, while they ran everything and he'd call me back. So he did about an hour later and YAY! I was approved. So everything worked out O.K. And I had a nice interesting little thought. I really enjoy analyzing everyday expressions and stuff, and thinking about what they'd mean literally. So anyway I walked into the kitchen and Timmy freaked out when he saw me and ran out, probably because I'd just finished fussing at him for going into the bathroom when I wasn't looking (Timmy is one of my two cats by the way, I'm not just some kinda weird, really bossy roommate ). So I said "it's OK, you can be in the kitchen". And then I got to thinking "Be in the kitchen"; on the whole "To be, or not to be" "I think therefore I AM" sorta level, it's kinda like I was saying "It's okay for you to exist here", which of course is exactly what I was saying, it's just weird to think about. Then I realized "I AM in the kitchen". Then I thought "I've BEEN in Virginia". It just seems so much more philosophical. And it's like "I'll BE in Houston". Ok so that probably only makes sense and seems interesting in my head, but it was a nice little thing to ponder. Anyway have an awesome day everyone and take care! Kevin

awww Viv, I'm sorry you've been down. I can definitely understand how the holidays and yesterday would remind you of your parents. I'm proud of you for being so strong but don't deny yourself the right to be sad either (just don't let it linger). Anyway on a side note I thought when I first started reading your blog that I'd be sad if I were drinking a rootbeer float too, since I too don't like rootbeer. It was funny when you confirmed that you didn't either, but I'm glad you have a safe ritual to turn to. Anyway glad to hear you're already starting to smile . Hope you feel even better soon. Take care. Kevin

Hi Julia! Sorry I didn't say hey sooner, but I didn't see your post. Anyway welcome to the site, I'm sure you'll like it here. This place is populated by extraordinarily nice people! You must be VERY busy having a young son and all, I'm so glad for you, children are really terrific! LOL now I know I really shouldn't ask this but.....You did say you were a domaholic, and have been lurking in the shadows awhile......How'd you come up with the name Luke? Anyway I hope you guys had an awesome holiday, and that Luke enjoyed his first Christmas and New Year. Take care and have an awesome day! Kevin

woo hoo! Glad you got your power back Viv! After hurricane Katrina I was without power for 5 days (not that I'm complaining it could have been much worse). It felt like a miracle when one day I got home and flipped on the lightswitch and it actually CAME ON! Double "woo hoo" about getting to see the next chapter soon! I can't wait (but I will so don't worry). Take care and have an awesome week and a great day. Kevin

Aww thanks Eric! LOL don't worry I certainly didn't mean straight straight . Anyway have an awesome day! Kevin

I love Pink, Simple Plan, and Relient K. And I like Eminem, John Mayer and Howie Day too. Jamie Cullum, I've never heard of.

Awww thanks Bev!! I'm definitely going to give the clean slate idea a chance! Wow those tim tams sound awesome! I agree, chocolate and carmel are the perfect pairing.....all though lately I've been going with chocolate and chocolate as a pairing . LOL that's a good idea about the New Year's resolutions! I dunno I just kinda like the excuse to try to do better. Of course I know I could just as easily decide on june 17th or something that it was time to cut out bad habits. Anyway I hope you had a really really happy New Year, and may the next year bring you much peace and happiness and many blessings! Take care and have an awesome day! Kevin

So I guess I'm turning into this huge cliche' . I've got all these plans for the new year, and how I'm going to get everything in my life straightened out and do better. First off I decided I didn't want to waste anymore of my youth. I figure if I'm not really healthy and active now, it'll just be harder when I get older (and for the record I'm not planning to even get middle aged until I'm AT LEAST 60 :king: ). So I went for a nice run around the neighborhood, and did some other random exercises, and went for a really long walk. Then a little while ago, quite randomly I decided to rearrange my furniture. It started off with me deciding to move a chair, the next thing I knew I'd moved EVERY piece of furniture in my living room, even the cats' litter box, and kennel. I really can't explain it, I'm usually pretty resistant to change, but I decided I wanted to try something new. I then proceeded to clean out my fridge, and clean up my kitchen. And in the process I even rearranged that (I moved all the appliances around). I'm not sure what to think overall; I mean I definitely think the kitchen is arranged better now. The living room, is.....Different, maybe better, maybe not, but anyway I can tolerate for the next 5 and a half months or so. My room still needs a good going over, as does my bathroom and closet, but that'll have to wait until tomorrow. Actually I think I MAY even rearrange my room a little. I need to change my bed and clean everything up anyway, so why not keep with this whole little trend I've got going. So tomorrow I'm planning to get up early enough to have breakfast. I never eat breakfast, I'm just not hungry enough when I get up, and I have so much trouble getting out of bed. But tomorrow I'm going to give it a shot. Of course the problem is I have to get up really early tomorrow for work, earlier still with these new plans I've got, and it's late now. So I won't get enough sleep . Which is obviously bad if I'm doing this healthier living thing. But I've been off for so long and slipped into sleeping and staying up late, so I guess I need to just suck it up and take this little sleep night, in order to get back in a good pattern. I mean I'll probably be tired tomorrow and go to bed early. As my final little change I'm going to try to go to the produce stand every other day, so that I can have fresh veggies every night. I mean I love them! It's just that I hate having to sit in traffic when I get off work to go buy them, and then I never feel like cleaning up the kitchen after I cook. But I'm thinking I'll use the traffic time to call random old friends and catch up. And I actually like to do dishes once I get myself to start, so it won't be so bad. Anyway I hope everyone has a really really awesome year, take care and bless you all (or good wishes, happy thoughts, whatever you go for ) Kevin

Hey Michael! Yep the chocolate is definitely going to be the hard one lol. It's really strange this last year I've LOST alot of weight and started eating ALOT more chocolate. But I attribute it to the no more caffiene and healthier lifestyle in general. LOL but it will be funny if I quit eating chocolate and put the weight back . Anyway have an awesome day! Kevin

Thanks Nick! Happy New Year to you too! LOL I know whatcha mean I eat chocolate everyday too, so it will be tough, but at least I'm not being THAT strict with it lol . BTW I love Reeses, I don't know if you guys have them in your part of the country but we have Hershey's ice cream stores here, and one of their flavors is Moose Tracks, it's got Reeses in it, It's awesome! Get it with the brownie sundae! MMMMMM Anyway take care Nick, and have an awesome day!

Sorry I didn't see your post before I posted. I agree. On all three points. I think the main problem isn't Rory having too much free time per say, OR having to stay busy. I think the problem is that he ISN'T thinking about it in the right way or dealing with it. He even said he ignored his feelings about Aaron because they hurt. It's true that he shouldn't dwell on it, but I can't help but feel that at least a little introspection would help him deal with it once and for all. Yes he does need to stay occupied and not dwell on it needlessly, but he also needs to sit down quietly and sort everything out so that he can move on. I also think you're right about questioning Seth's reaction to Rory's announcement that he'd run into Aaron. I thought the same thing. Just when I was starting to believe Seth entirely, Dom throws in the interaction with Aaron, and Rory's telling Seth about it, and it seems like maybe there's still more to it after all. And I think you're right, maybe Luke has just given up so he figures he might as well play matchmaker.

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I hope everyone finds themselves unbelievably happy in 2006! Take care and be safe everyone! Kevin

Happy Birthday Green, I hope it's a really great one!

I agree with the general consensus, just let her sing. Speaking for myself I know I sing badly, but I enjoy it. I don't sing around other people often though because I know suck. But if I do sing around someone, it means I've decided to just go ahead and have fun anyway. In which case I'd be seriously offended if they were like "dude you should stop". But then I may be easier to offend than your mom.

Hehehee actually so do I, that's why I'm not so worried about it Yep I'm really glad to have checked it out and feel alot better about it now! I'm really looking forward to the move. Anyway have an awesome year and a fantastic day! Kevin

So contrary to what most people seem to be saying. I really liked 2005, it was a good year for me. So anyway I really like making "resolutions", in fact I know it's silly because I could really quit doing something anytime of the year, but I always look forward to New Year's and Lent so that I have an excuse to give something up. So I think I'm going to give up chocolate and alcohol for 2006. Both with a lot of conditions though. Like I have alot of chocolate right now, and I'm going to go ahead and "finish it" before I start, and of course it would just stupid and unhealthy if I had binged or something to get in before the new year. But I'm not going to buy myself chocolate anymore, if someone gives me chocolate (without me asking), then fine I'll eat it . And I may possibly eat it now and then in restaurants. But no more buying myself chocolate treats and just eating them at work or at home. As far as drinking goes, I'm going to make an exception again with alcohol bought with a meal, as long as I'm not driving and I don't drink enough to get drunk. So not too strict I know, but I figure hey it's a start right. Anyway I think for Lent I'm going to give up meat with the exception of fish (of course that'll just be for the duration of lent). I'm looking forward to that. So anyway wish me luck! Oh yeah and Houston went really well. I found an apartment, got a good feel for the city, and had ALOT of fun. So take care everyone. Kevin

Awww thanks guys! I do try not to take the crying thing personally, but even if i don't, it still makes me a little sad that we never really got to know each other. Anyway also, I'm definitely going to do what I feel is best for me. It's just more I don't like to tick people off, so while it isn't going to stop me, I still won't like it if it upsets anyone. I know I should just get over it, and not worry about it, and it's not so much that I'm worried about what people think of me, I'm just worried about upsetting them or making them unhappy. Anyway Thanks, and I think I found the perfect middle ground anyway I was talking to a friend of mine who just applied for the SPRING. So that seems perfect, I don't know why it didn't occur to me to just do that. Anyway take care all and have an awesome Year! Kevin

I love resolutions, In fact I wait all year for New Year's and Lent so that I can make them. But lent's more fun because then they aren't permanent. I love that song btw. A friend of mine bought the cd and started talking about that song. So I downloaded it and really liked it, and I also liked photograph, but I didn't really care for the rest on the cd. Anyway have an awesome year and take care Kevin

I vote for "GayAlmostDad", that way the acronym will be "gad", Rory can have a dad and a gad, it'd be so cute lol. Well I bet it was different with Luke because LUKE was different. I mean he's more out-going and personable than Rory anyway. Sounds great Have an awesome, great, fantastic, truly amazing year everyone! Kevin

LOL I just got back from a two and a half day trip, on which I took 5 pairs of shoes. Wore em all too. I guess I know what you mean I always thought an obsession with shoes was a little odd too....Till I realized how much fun it was to dress up in different styles and colours of clothing....and you really do have to have the right shoes to match......sooo..... Also I just downloaded "the year of the cat", it's pretty good. I definitely don't dislike it, but I think it's a little too laid back for my taste. I generally like music that "grabs me" and won't let me think about anything else while it's on. Which I imagine is probably why I can never read/write/talk while listening to music. Anyway nice song though. Take care everyone and have an awesome day! Kevin

Hey Slaveboy, I'm so sorry to hear about your sister and mom's bickering. It sucks when people at home are fighting. My own method for dealing with it was to leave the house as much as possible when the fighting was particularly upsetting (go out with friends, go for a walk, whatever), and try really hard to stay on everyone's good side. Of course I'm not sure that my method was necessarily that great, but it did work for me. I also hope ya feel better, take care and get plenty of rest and fluids. Kevin

Hey Viv! Woo Hoo! My name made it into the title! I just finished reading your latest chapter of Behind Those Eyes. Wow! It was awesome I loved it, way to go! I can't wait to find out what happens in the next chapter. I hope you have a really really awesome year! Take care and stay safe Kevin