I would suspect that the trust would ultimately be divided equally between the three siblings, but we shall see. You're right; we may have to entertain Beau to a Stanford hockey game.
As for the "one special guy", that almost suggests a 'wait until we're married' approach for gay men. I'm not sure how realistic that is, especially since I've sort of addressed that kind of guy with Father Tim. Now, it's entirely possible that Josh won't be slutty, but I don't see him as virginal, or as staying that way. Whether he's with Wade, or someone else, he's probably about 20. He'll be with someone.