I was forced to wear a tie for decades while working in retail in the late seventies through the nineties. When you have to wear them every day, you learn how to tie them (even if it’s not exactly one of the standard methods). It never made sense to me to have to dress up to work in a discount store, especially considering that women had much greater freedom in their dress code. And there were few male customers who wore ties when they shopped in those stores.
Still, it was better than the IBM-inspired dress code of white shirts and ties with black slacks for engineers in the pre-Silicon Valley high tech industries.
Eventually I changed employers and no longer needed to wear the tie. My location in the Bay Area and changing standards meant that we generally wore company-supplied polo shirts with our employer’s logo on them in one job – and red shirts with khaki pants at another (guess who?).
These days, I only wear ties to weddings and funerals. And the last wedding I attended was in the early nineties. My brothers have been informed that when I die, no ties or dark, sombre clothing is to be allowed at my memorial service. It cannot be a religious service and no hymns may be played (even though my father was a Protestant minister and my brothers and their families are very religious).
;–)