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I don't have purses deb. But, ooh, everyone be amazed, I threw out some shoes this weekend I now only have 28 pairs of shoes including flip flops!! How great is that? I even shrunk my shoe rack!!

Oooh, I have never heard it called over hand or underhand, did everyone else really know what it meant? And over of course, why would you have it under? Although at the moment we have a thing that that tp goes on sideways, so it's not an issue I have to contemplate.

I am confused by the question, lol...can you explain it differently?

I thought she just had the last chapter written?

5 pairs in a day? I'm proud of you Deb, even if they weren't all for you

Lol, much appreciated Snow Dog, and he knows I wouldn't be able to leave him on the sofa, I'd end up out there with him

Hmmm, I'm not sure I'm convinced by the change of opinion there...lol And Snow Dog, leave my boy alone, k?

*blush blush* And does she really lore? Say hi to her from me *waves at Lore's mum*

me too!! I love... ...thinking about the future me and my bf are going to have ...waking up and realising that neither of us have anywhere to go or anything to do all day ...having a good conversation with my dad ...my bf being affectionate for no reason ...realising I haven't lost anything while out drinking ...getting totally lost in a book ...hearing 'I love you' ...daydreaming about being a gay version of the Ralph Lauren families ...getting hugged from behind ...being held close to someone when crying ...people not killing me for whining about being ill ...him not complaining when my feet are cold ...songs seem meaningful, and I get choked up over something stupid, reminding me that I don't in fact have a stone for a heart ...being woken up with kisses ...feeling like the centre of someones world ...comfort food ...kisses on the back of my neck I'll stop now I'm getting all squishy <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Seb p.s. Your heart's made of gold, not stone.

There's no hope for you baby, you're a shoe addict, but at least you've admitted your problem in front of other people, which I believe is the first step on the road to recovery. ...actually, after considering the possible consequences of my comment above I've reconsidered my position on the shoe matter... Of course 30+ pairs of shoes isn't excessive, it's perfectly reasonable to have more pairs of shoes than you could wear in a month, and to have more purses, er, man bags than are necessary is fine too, expected even Will that save me from a night on the sofa? Seb (Ben's other half)

*hugs*

I'm so glad I'm not the only one that didn't know we could change colours! ...and I'm sticking with blue, I fear my eyes might fall out if I used any of the others.

I believe Eddie Izzard's not gay, he's a transvestite, there's a difference I also heard that rumour about Jake Gyllenhaal, and if the rumour's to be believed then his coming out will be nicely timed with the release of Brokeback Mountain (a movie I'm greatly excited about)

Happy (belated) Birthday!

I hate it when... ...lazy people call the switchboard to look up a number they could easily look up themselves, and then are horrifically rude when asked to repeat themselves. Look it up yourself in the first place you lazy b*tch!!!

I love it when... ...my new job turns out to be really easy and the people I work with are really friendly, including after they know I'm gay

*ahem* Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear Xander, Happy Birthday tooooo yoooooou

I hate it when... ...I'm so nervous before my first day of work that I feel like I can't make a single clothing decision and get even more nervous at the thought that I'll turn up to work badly dressed ...my bf's advice of 'wear black' really isn't helpful

Interpol are awesome!! I've seen them live twice and I think Carlos D is super cool

Mwa ha ha!!

I can't believe some people have finished it already!

I came out to myself when I was about 15 or so, then I told one friend of mine when I was 17, just by chance I met my bf around then but I don't suppose he counts as someone I've come out to, lol. But due to meeting him I came out to my aunt, and then eventually my mother, but I didn't come out to anymore of my family until I was 18 and about 3000miles away from them for a year. My mother didn't take it too well, but she's high strung anyway. She's all worried about not having any grandkids (I'm an only child) but I still want to be a parent, so I've tried reassuring her of that. My dad took it really well, which suprised me, I think the fact that he thinks my bf's a good guy helps. I didn't come out to anyone at school until we'd practically left (at prom). I do know that if I hadn't met my bf I wouldn't have come out when I did, probably not until I got to college, I know that several of my friends here at uni have moved away from home to go to college and feel a lot...more free here, but they're not out at home for whatever reason. I agree with what everyone else has said, don't come out because you feel like you have to because you're a certain age, come out when it feels right to you, and remember, it's a gradual process, when you come out to friends etc may well be different to when you come out to your parents.

You finished it already?! Well done, lol.

Just thought I'd share with you that I just got my copy in the post, how excited am I? I think I might have scared the postman though, I suppose greeting him with the words 'I've been waiting' while looking more that a little dishevelled (/crazy) might have been a bad start. Anyway, a copy of it is now safely in my hands, although I do feel I need more than 3 hours sleep to fully appreciate it. Everyone enjoy reading it

I have the cartialge pierced in my right ear, and I always wear a ring in there. My bf has the cartilage done too and he has his lip pierced, but he has to take it out during the day, being a teacher and all. I think it's really hot though. I'm considering getting my nipple pierced but I'm just a little unsure about how much it'll hurt afterwards, anyone had it done and would care to let me know about that side of it? I'm intrigued to know where your piercings are Dom Also, I don't have any tattoos but I really want one, the only problem is I'm an 'In for a penny, in for a pound' kind of person, so I want to get a tattoo that's fairly narrow but runs the whole length of my spine, so I'm a little put off by the pain issue.