First, there is a huge difference between religion and spirituality. My definition of religion is the method by which spirituality is expressed and, as such I have my doubts about whether many branches of so called organised religion are, in fact religions or religious at all.
That being said there is absolutely no reason why someone who is gay cannot also be religious. If you start to carefully studdy the bible and the way in which people interperate it then it is quite clear that there is no reason whatever why the Christianity and homosexuality have to be mutually exclusive. The bible is not an instruction manual, it is a guide.... after all we don't stone adulterouses and.... the very same book and arguments were used to justify the burning of witches at one point (thou shalt not suffer a witch to live) and there are few who admit to ascribing to that philosophy any more.
As Chase has succinctly put it before me... my religion is ME in that I am the means by which my spirituality is expressed. I do not need a church, a priest or a label to be the means by which I connect with my own personal interpretation of God, Life, Spirituality, whateever... I am perfectly capable of connecting to the modem myself.