Camilo

I'm curious to know how you define love. What characteristics do you associate with love for a significant other? is s/he a companion first, a lover second? Does love shift and mold? Does it decay? Does it decay and then blossom once more?

*cleans ups* Why, care to introduce me? I'm very good boyfriend material... just overlook the gay part, and I'm a perfect catch ! See, I can even be serious

Haha! I met pigeons just like that today. I was sitting on a bench in NYC and the pigeon looked at me, and approached me even though I had no food on me. It stood, as few inches from my foot, and gave me the evil eye. The, "I know you're hiding food, no give me it, I ain't gonna leave until I get it" look.

Oh really, hmm. I didn't know that *smirks*

ET I never ever want to see that movie ever again *shudders*

Thanks for the link. I'm up to chapter 5 now and i'm enjoying it. I'm glad that there about 40/50 chapters, although, yeah I can see why it would be way too much unless something dramatic happened (aliens, monsters, or end of the world dramatic, or a baby! That would be interesting) So far, it's cute.

... such as?

..... no sex for you for all full month.

So that I jack off to their sex You're on thin ice mister! No, I want to read lesbian stories so that I can learn from them. Hey, it might be interesting . And Mike, shame on you, shame on you.

I just saw episode 1 of series 1 and laughed so hard when the host asked the gay guy if he was worried about getting the girl pregnant and he's like "Girl????" and she's like "oh, i'm terribly sorry" and everyone laughs.

Are there any lesbian stories here on GA? I've never read one, or come across one. I know that I don't look through the efiiction a lot, i haven't seen one here during the year that i've been here.

But you're just making assumptions on appearances. Just because someone acts "dumb" and "close minded" doesn't mean that they don't have inner thoughts. How can you know what's going through the mind of these people who "are happy rolling in mud"? Do intelligent creative thoughts pass through their brains, but are not acted upon? Do the same ideas that flow through "smart" people flow through their minds, but are self censored? They may be present, could they not?

I've had this lingering thought in the back of my mind, for the longest while. It's been reaffirmed, strengthen at times by some of the things that I read here on GA and as of recently an NPR story that I listened to a week ago. It's the idea that everyone is smart in his/her own level and, given the opportunity, can provide a grounded opinion. In other words, when enable to, a person can produce a creative idea, logical response, or convincing argument. That there aren't just a "set" of people who are smart, creative, and resourceful, but rather everyone is capable of producing something worthwhile. I kept thinking of this as I listened to an NPR story about "multipliers". People who enable others to shine and prosper. In other words, people who bring out the best in you, whether it is at coming up with educated answers, innovative ideas, and creative problem solving tips. In addition, the story explores people who have the opposite effect on others - "diminishers" (or a word along those lines, can't fully remember it). These are individuals who micromanage everyone around them and hold the believe that there is a set of people who are the smart, creative, and innovative people. The story concludes stating that the main difference between diminishers and multipliers is that the latter believes everyone around them is smart and has the capabilities to solve tough problems. Do I believe that everyone around me is smart? I don't know and this "I don't know" makes me wonder even why it is that I can't answer this question. Am I conceited? No and yes. No in the sense that I'm not presumptuous; I do, however, have a mix of inner confidence/ego that makes have an excessively positive opinion of my abilities. Honestly, I do believe that I am better than some people and that I will be successful in life (not money making successful, rather, successful in the goals that I set out to accomplish). I'd like to think that what I feel is self worth, and do admit that it might be pretentious. But truthfully, I don't care. My mom tells me that she's amazed at how easily things come to me. She means how lucky it seems that everything I want... happens. My grades, my friends, my colleges, my scholarships, and even my love life. Things just happen to fall into place in front of me, and I like it. In just a few months I'll heading off to Swarthmore, one the of most intellectual places in the country. Every thing there is a debate, everyone there was the smartest kid in their class, everyone there has strong educated opinions, and they don't have an off button. I scares me and frustrates me at the same time. I can just picture myself telling a kid to shut the eff up and let me my CoCo Puffs in peace, i don't want to hear about Darfur, I don't want to hear about the dolphins, i don't want to discuss Foucault, all i want to do is eat my CoCo Puffs and think of nothing. Then there are you guys, the people who post things responses here. I read them and they seem educated, lengthy and thought out. I'm truly amazed at some of the responses, especially in the soap box, because they're thought out. Even some of the responses of people who are newbies make me think. Albeit at some responses I just want to draw a big red X on them, but still. I would say that the responses are smart/creative/and innovative because, well, I think they are. But does it mean that all of you belong to the "set" of smart innovative people who are at the top of their game? Just by numbers, no. So, why are your responses so well, smart? Could it be that GA serves as "multiplier" and brings out the best in you? Bringing out your creative, smart, and innovative side? Maybe after all, everyone has the potential to be smart and creative? Is everyone smart? I don't know. Maybe. *goes back to sleep*

Catalu

You know I need a detailed hour by hour description So prepare to tell me all about it next time we chat. And of course, I'm happy for you

So that's why so many people on GA are cat persons........... I want a cat now!

Oh lord, ok. *brings out a newly wrapped box of substantial size* I'm running low on guys, so here have a girl.(I had to run all the way to Northampton to get you one, but I got one) This one is a deluxe one, so she comes with different accessories, you know strap ons and all that good stuff. You can keep her for two days (it was a one for two days special Enjoy and if you want the guy edition, you gonna have to wait l, umkay

*brings out another huge gift wrapped box* Oh boy, I don't know how many more dancers the club is gonna have left. Ask Tarin how to take care of him. Oh and no spanking, I didn't check the fetish option on this one when I rented him out.

*brings out a huge gift wrapped box* It's a special present, make sure you don't block the breathing holes on the box, he needs to breathe Oh and return him as soon as you're done with him, ok, I'm renting him by the hour Have fun Tarin

I'll have you bent over all day!!!! Also cleaning up my room

Lol, so that's what we call ugly people now? Believers of beauty is in the eye of the beholder?

Sigh, just way too funny . I love Sue http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFjWRGaV-Fs&feature=player_embedded

I am indeed an Oak Tree. I sway with the wind, but i don't break, oh yeah

So apparently Philips, the maker of hair trimmers, wants you to shave your pubes. And for every trimmer you buy to do the deed, they'll plant a tree....... It gets better! Wanna know what kinda tree you're growing down there!!! Then click here ! They state that for every body-groomer they sell, they'll plant another tree with the help of the Arbor Day Foundation because... "Now is your chance to man up, keep your 'hedges' trimmed, and help our forests grow... the only acceptable place for deforestation is one the human body!"