Hey John

sorry things aren't so great for you right now....

I know it's not the best advice ever, but I really think that you should talk to Jason about his friends and that you feel rejected by him lately. How else is he supposed to know how you feel? I'm sure he doesn't know....so i think talking would be the best option...I think you guys can talk about anything right?

And about the neighbors...just ignore them...who the hell are they anyway? You can be proud of the progress you've made..don't let them ruin that

WARNING. I AM PISSED

Neighbours... ditto. Put them out of your mind... aresholes.

Jason... He sounds confused, as if he doesn't know WHAT to do. DON'T challenge him DO talk to him. When you challenge someone then they get defensive, when you talk to someone they open, especially when they love you, and if he doesn't love you ditch him for someone who does.

Now, I know that you love Jason and I have a pretty good idea that he loves you too, so TALK to him. Pour out your heart, cry, rant, keep telling him how much you love him and how much he doesn't need these other twats no matter how much he wants to fit in and doesn't like to piss people off... these people DESERVE to be pissed off.

I mean seriously... ask him why he would want to be with someone who is so mean to his boyfriend and that if he so much as talks to them is will send a sword so far through your heart that is sticks out of your back.

Tell him you will fall apart and be destroyed if he doesn't love you enough to realise how much this is hurting you and that he really shouldn't see any of the friends you don't like or his family every again because you are the most important thing in the world and he should bloody well realise that so there.

Then when you get that all off your chest have great make up sex and while you are post coital talk seriously about the things that are concerning you whilst respecting the fact that he has his own life and own decisions to make about it.

Bleargh... relationships are hard... like a.... well, use your imagination.

Frankly I’m gonna be blunt because tactful isn’t in my vocabulary!

I know you love this guy, but letting him walk all over you time and again is asking for trouble. If someone truly loves you they don’t treat you like something on the bottom of their shoe. That’s called disrespect. Fact.

Ultimatum time, tell him to wise up or f**k off. You deserve better than what he’s giving you. Once you accept the way he’s treating you, he’ll carry on because he’s already gotten away with it. Never let anyone treat you this way, because sooner or later it’ll become a pattern. Make a stand now, or you’ll be a victim ‘til you do.

I suggest that you try to deal with your relationship issues sooner rather than later while you can talk rationally about it. In anger, we often say mean things that we cannot take back, and that could end the relationship completely, and I don't think you want that. Communication is an important aspect of a relationship. Once it's gone, things can unravel.

we had sorted it guys

But then tonight, again, with his sixth form friends he said that they'd changed it so they are having an all day meetup instead of like 2 hours in the evening on tuesday. So they are seeing each other between 2-12... 10 hours...

It just frustrates me that he tells me things then changes them a few days later

Just wish he would get the right facts and the right information before he tells me anything

Thats gonna be another day when im pretty much not going to hear from him

I know i will see him afterwards but again its that feeling of rejection and i hate it i know he's not rejecting me but he knows how sensitive i am just *sigh*