When you start a realationship there's so much to learn, teach, and accept that if you have the right person, you will definitely know it.

I was so lucky, and I wish it for all of you here. I like to write good things and i am lucky enough to have them to write about. At work the other day, my hubby called me and said," I had to go and get so and so for the plant. I was like, " You have already left?". ( we have both been working at the same place for over 25 years.) He said," Yes, but if I need to, I can turn around and come back. What do you need?" After 29 years of marriage, I am still his first priority and i am not going to lie .It feels damn good. When he said that to me it reminded me once again how lucky i am. I am proud to be in a less than perfect but wonderful relationship Nothing is a bed or roses, but always remember that no matter how beautiful the rose, there's the thorns to contend with, but that is also what strengthens the relationship.

I spent the weekend with my best friend, came home to a spotless house, laundry done, and and attitude from him that made me know that he was glad that I was home.

So for all of you that are always wondering, is he or she the one, I don't know if I really like them, etc. When you find the right one, these questions or doubts will not be there. You will know.

Even though he is straight, he listens to me laughing at some of the stuff I read on here, i share it with him, and he enjoys is also. Be honest, share, and keep and open mind. I wish some of you could meet him because he is a very strong accepting and supportive person. I wish one like him for each of you.

Just a little rant guys. Hugs to all