Okay, So I've been had.

I don't know what to think/believe when it comes to the veracity of Aaron's claims. I do know that I don't trust him. Amusingly enough I actually put more weight in the word of his possessive-obsessive ex at this point.

It seems that Aaron had told him he would try to work things out with him. Hence the shock when he peaked through the window and saw Aaron jacking me off. Hence the emotional outburst a few minutes later. Hence the call I received from Jeremy a little bit ago asking me what's going on between me and Aaron and what Aaron's told me about what's going on between the two of them. A half hour later I got a call from Aaron "I'm sorry. I'm going to try to work things out with Jeremy. I didn't mean to send you any signals"

To which I respond rather indignantly, unsubtly and probably none too pleasantly "Are you serious, you were giving me head the first night you were with me and you don't think that was a signal?"

Seriously, this is the guy gave me his number, wanted to meet, wanted to get over his possessive ex etc. He told me he was over his ex, wanted to get away from him but had nowhere else to go, etc. Was making out with me in the back seat of his car on the first "date" and in the course of that started giving me oral - The same guy who, just last night, with his apparent non-ex showering in the next room, was all over me, reached into my pants and started jacking me off and got caught when his ex peaked through the window.

Tonight though, he's going to work it out.

They're both idiots. Jeremy should leave Aaron because at this point I'd say what Aaron was doing with me could be considered cheating. As for Aaron - whatever Jeremy's normal character is, since all I've heard about him is purely second-hand information... well frankly I don't have anything positive to say about Aaron at all right now.

He wants to be friends with me. It will surprise me if he's got the balls to actually call tomorrow like he says he will.

I sent a text message: Aaron, I apologize for my reaction, do what you need to do. When your heart is free perhaps then we can explore the possibility of a relationship. I will not be an affair.

That last line is really for both of them (they share a phone and frankly I hope Jeremy reads it). I will not do anything physical at all with Aaron until I witness him telling Jeremy that its over. I don't know what (if anything) I'll be open to having with Aaron even if that does happen because frankly, Aaron has lied to Jeremy and cheated on him while he was one room away, and Aaron has definitely lied to me. That rather makes for an ill omen on any potential for a relationship.