Mark Arbour Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 ^ I'm kind of confused here Have you tried either bottoming or topping? If you're unsure which position you prefer, then you ought to try both out (preferably with someone you trust and even better - care about and vice versa) and see what you enjoy best. As for me, I go both ways - depends on the partner. In my case, when I meet someone, after a short while I immediately know if I would either top or bottom in that relationship. But, in all honesty, I think I'm more of a bottom ^^ There's just something I really enjoy about it, about someone holding you and... so on I'm thinking that with your GA "name", most of us would have guessed bottom. Then again, that goes back to the whole stereotype of bottoms, but I thought I'd tease you about it anyway.
Tranquility Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 I'm thinking that with your GA "name", most of us would have guessed bottom. Then again, that goes back to the whole stereotype of bottoms, but I thought I'd tease you about it anyway. I'm confused again How is my name indicative of me being a bottom?
Site Administrator Cia Posted July 12, 2011 Site Administrator Posted July 12, 2011 I'm confused again How is my name indicative of me being a bottom? LOL. I would guess the Tranquil is what gave him that perception. Tranquil as in quiet which seems less assertive which lends to less likely to top was probably his line of thinking. Then again the concept of a bossy bottom is hardly new so being quiet a prerequisite to being the catcher so to speak. Then we have all the strong silent types that you would expect to top based on build and demeanor... so again, not a very valid way to determine what a person does or does not like in bed. Maybe Mark's assumption that I'm a top (as much as I could be ) comes from the tie most people give my name to the CIA, which is all macho spy stuff, lol.
TetRefine Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 LOL. I would guess the Tranquil is what gave him that perception. Tranquil as in quiet which seems less assertive which lends to less likely to top was probably his line of thinking. Then again the concept of a bossy bottom is hardly new so being quiet a prerequisite to being the catcher so to speak. Then we have all the strong silent types that you would expect to top based on build and demeanor... so again, not a very valid way to determine what a person does or does not like in bed. Maybe Mark's assumption that I'm a top (as much as I could be ) comes from the tie most people give my name to the CIA, which is all macho spy stuff, lol. Word. You can definitely not judge someone on their bottom/top preference just by their physical build. I'm sometimes living proof of that.
Tranquility Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 I was going for a Zen effect with the name, not seeming like I had a leash on! Though, a little bit of light bondage is very arousing But anyway, I once met a very un-bottom like guy - you know, all manly, completely straight looking and acting, all muscled and stuff - turned out he was an exclusive bottom. I also met a guy who was totally un-top like and he was actually a top. It's complicated I guess, but I stand firmly that versatility is the best way to go 1
K.C. Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Top or bottom? That’s like asking someone do they only eat chocolate or vanilla ice-cream. Why would you limit yourself? Top, bottom, right, left, inverted over the top, you name it…have fun and try it all. It’s a common misconception that younger guys should bottom. I believe it has more to do with experience than age at the beginning, but once you’re comfortable and trust each other then the sky’s the limit. My hubby is only 2 months younger than me, but since I was born in November and he was born in January, I always tease him that I’m so much older and more mature (OMG---not! ) but age shouldn’t be a determining factor.
Tranquility Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Top or bottom? That’s like asking someone do they only eat chocolate or vanilla ice-cream. Why would you limit yourself? Top, bottom, right, left, inverted over the top, you name it…have fun and try it all. Now that's what I'm talkin' bout!
Conner Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Has anyone ever run into 2 bottoms or 2 tops trying to make a go of it - as in a relationship? Obviously, this is one reason why some couples are versatile. So I guess I'm talking about men who have a definite preference. Might make for an interesting story...then again, maybe not.
Site Administrator Cia Posted July 14, 2011 Site Administrator Posted July 14, 2011 Has anyone ever run into 2 bottoms or 2 tops trying to make a go of it - as in a relationship? Obviously, this is one reason why some couples are versatile. So I guess I'm talking about men who have a definite preference. Might make for an interesting story...then again, maybe not. I think that being completely compatible sexually isn't that common anyway. Lots of couples have compromises for things one partner wants that the other might not. Could you imagine the types of games two tops might get up to in order to determine who is going to bottom from time to time?
Sir Galahad Posted July 14, 2011 Posted July 14, 2011 Versatile top as is the better half. Makes for an interesting challenge when we get frisky! 2
undisclosedtoyou Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 (edited) Ha, I've never actually thought about it before. Technically I've only ever been the bottom in my girl on girl bonding time, but when I'm alone and fantasizing about it, I'm a total top, I won't go into detail about that because that's just well...not in good taste So to sum it up, I guess I'm versatile. To be honest, I'm not even thinking about the whole, submissive or dominant aspect of it, that's a whole other can of wonderful, and is my own little secret Edited July 19, 2011 by undisclosedtoyou
Firewalker Posted August 19, 2011 Posted August 19, 2011 Hmm, i'd say I'm way more inclined towards bottom though I do crave sometimes a bit of top action, it never really lasts long enough to overpower the bottom part haha
Y_B Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 I'm a top bottom top bottom bottom top ... ... bottom ... ... bottom. I'm usually pretty versatile but lately I've been in a much more sexually submissive mood. Just take me to dinner, watch a movie with me, and then you can do w/e you want with me (just don't bite ) 2
Dark Posted December 10, 2011 Posted December 10, 2011 Has anyone ever run into 2 bottoms or 2 tops trying to make a go of it - as in a relationship? Obviously, this is one reason why some couples are versatile. So I guess I'm talking about men who have a definite preference. Might make for an interesting story...then again, maybe not. JP and Step in the CAP series are both bottoms and they've managed a healthy relationship. As for knowing people in real life? I try not to know those details about my friends!
TetRefine Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 I'm a top bottom top bottom bottom top ... ... bottom ... ... bottom. I'm usually pretty versatile but lately I've been in a much more sexually submissive mood. Just take me to dinner, watch a movie with me, and then you can do w/e you want with me (just don't bite ) Its that easy?
KriZstan Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 Fun topic. I have always considered myself a versatile bottom. In my current relationship of over 7yrs! I find myself in the bottom position and loving it, now of course we switch it up from time to time!
KriZstan Posted December 11, 2011 Posted December 11, 2011 Fun topic. I have always considered myself a versatile bottom. In my current relationship of over 7yrs! I find myself in the bottom position and loving it, now of course we switch it up from time to time!
Y_B Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Its that easy? Purddy much. I'm on a holiday sale.
Andrew Q Gordon Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 I'm a top bottom top bottom bottom top ... ... bottom ... ... bottom. I'm usually pretty versatile but lately I've been in a much more sexually submissive mood. Just take me to dinner, watch a movie with me, and then you can do w/e you want with me (just don't bite ) Crap where were you when I was in college - er . . . wait, don't answer that, it will depress me
TetRefine Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Crap where were you when I was in college - er . . . wait, don't answer that, it will depress me Oh boy, I so could have been mean here. Purddy much. I'm on a holiday sale. You're just trying to get me to come down there aren't you.
Y_B Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Crap where were you when I was in college - er . . . wait, don't answer that, it will depress me Elementary school, most likely. You're just trying to get me to come down there aren't you. Is it working?
TetRefine Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Is it working? Long as you get those tickets.
Y_B Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Long as you get those tickets. Next year, one of these could be yours Sexy, aren't they? (These specific tix were actually 300 a pop, I had to sell em)
TetRefine Posted December 12, 2011 Posted December 12, 2011 Next year, one of these could be yours Sexy, aren't they? (These specific tix were actually 300 a pop, I had to sell em) Oh boy those tickets look sexy! And of course that includes the sexy entertainment after the game from the host right?
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