Hmmm, I wonder having had a similiar relationship, were Gray and Jordan truly lovers? Both scenes play out in the ice cream shop and the implication is that happened once each year on Christmas Eve. Jordan's memory is of Gray at a workplace party, not of intimacy between them. Was there more we haven't been privy to? With Jennifer, Gray talked about Jordan while with Jordan he talked about her and the boys. Is it possible that while Gray's feelings for Jordan may have been deep they were strictly platonic. Obviously much to Jordan's consternation. Maybe what Jordan sees in Jennifer's eyes is her understanding of his unrequited feelings toward Gray. Perhaps Gray knew and told her. In her grief she seeks solace for herself and the boys in the one other who loved him deeply and in doing so brings solace to Jordan.
Beautiful and poignant.