Most of the criticism of my work is either somone not liking the type of story I'm telling (that's fine, go find something you like) or telling me something doesn't read quite right and needs to be changed/rewritten. This is usually from an editor or beta reader and is appreciated. I can't recall anyone criticizing my work because I'm a woman who can't write about gay/bi men. I don't see much of that anywhere, to be honest. Must be sticking to the right corners of the internet.