If I was Peter, I'd break up with Alan and walk away right now. He doesn't want kids, he didn't sign up for any of this, and now he's been accused of being a Paedophile. Sadly, mud sticks, and this will adversely affect him for the rest of his life. This sort of news always gets out and will haunt Peter for the rest of his life. Plus Alan hasn't shown any ability or even any desire to balance a relationship along with parenting. When was the last time they had sex even? At least three weeks. Alan has been very selfish and demanding, take take take. Walk away Peter, you didn't sign up for this, you've come very close to being sent to Prison labelled as a Paedophile, you'd probably die in there, murdered by the other inmates for a crime you didn't commit.