I don't often comment, but I can't hold it back tonight. You can't understand until you feel like you've lost everything. Fortunately I didn't lose everything. in late August, 2005, I still had my wife, both of our sons, and a stray cat that we had taken with us as we evacuated Arabi, La before Katrina swamped the levees and washed away everything that we couldn't pack in our car. But the real blessing was how people, total strangers who didn't know us, stepped up and helped us and gave us a new start, a new hope. It was hard for me, but I hope that Troy can swallow some of that pride and let Grant be blessed by giving the support and aid to someone in need. He needs to understand that while it is a blessing to receive, it may be an even bigger blessing to give.