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Indeed, thanks, tim. It is pure as you say … a wonderful thing.

Thanks very much Kitt. I appreciate your support and comments.

Very true, Fae. People like to believe the worst … let them while sit in their own misery while we go out and dance. Thanks for your comments and insight.

I suppose this piece should have a WARNING … if you are closed minded, cannot deal with things outside your own experience or what you think is 'normal', or believe that relationships with more than two people are wrong. DO NOT READ THIS. I have never been conventional. Well, I say that, yet, I wanted to be married. But I also believe you can love more than one. I believe that bringing others into a relationship for friendship and sex is a good thing and that it can work. Until last year, my husband resisted that. he was unsure, worried that I would love the other more, leave him possibly. We eventually did share with another couple we've known for a long time. tim came to realize that I would never leave him. That he is my main dance partner for life. And, if push came to shove … he is truly all I need. Knowing that has freed him. Freed him to not be afraid of both mental and physical relationships with others. That is not to say that we just jump into bed with everyone. We do not, nor do we want to. There has to be a connection, feeling … neither of us want some casual thing. Early this year an ex of mine, who remained a friend, came to me to talk and for some comfort. He'd been ready to ask his boyfriend to marry him. Just before that event, the boyfriend admitted he was tired and had met someone else. Someone he'd been having an affair with for nearly a year. My friend Jim was devastated. He changed his shift to nights only, so he slept in the day, making it easier to avoid life. One day Jim asked if he could spend more time with us. I said sure. I'm not sure how we ended up on the topic but he asked if we might consider more with him. He was missing companionship and sex. He and I had dated for a couple of years and we had parted for various reasons as friends, so I had no problem with that. I still cared for him a lot. And then I nearly messed it up by pushing too hard. It upset my husband, who knew who Jim was, but didn't know him. After some real honest talk, the three of us decided we needed to spend time together to get to know each other, to let things develop. I'm happy to say they have developed. We have this closeness now, a bond. We care deeply and continue to nurture this new relationship. I'm not sure how far it will go or where we may end up. But for now it feels good, and it feels right.

Your words are beautiful, tim. I hope they bring comfort to those who need them.

Change is inevitable. It will happen. Nice poem.

I hope you have a good weekend, rick. Enjoy yourself and relax.

Good night, all …

Sounds wonderful. ..night everyone

Good night rick. Everyone. ..

I am well, thank you, molly.

I think you need to know yourself. Try different methods/ideas. tim, I know cannot have music or anything else to distract him. So try it this way for a while. If for some reason you need to change, try another method. If you like it , use it.

yes it is … very good

sometimes one should not skip to the end, because one misses sneak peeks...

That's great news, rick. Tell him doing what your doctor tells you.. is worth it. He knows that from your changes too. Best wishes.

That's excellent, molly. tim, I suggested start do so regularly. It is beneficial for everyone, not just subs.

Goodnight both of you.

Thank you, molly.

Thank's Reader

Well, he's a good guy, I've known him for a long time, but things are right for all of us at the moment. We will see how things go.

Very much so. In fact, we may have a boyfriend. We shall see how it goes. So far, it's working well, but it is early days.

I would not bring that lovely thing here.. he has a double coat for a reason and its not 90% humidity and 100F+ temps

I hope your brother is doing well. Please make sure you look after yourself, so you can help him.

If you tire of soup, oatmeal, eggs … keep a few cans of Ensure around. They are useful in this temporary situation.

you're welcome. Now, please do as I ask. Be kind to yourself, and rest.