No hate. I know it feels like a slow burn, and to some degree it is, but at the same time, is it? Kyan built a family, lost his wife, grieved his wife, found life without his wife, realized his attraction to Perry and is now dealing with that. Him and Perry only hooked up at the end of November...it is now the beginning of January. That is not a lot of time to come to terms with all this situation encompasses. Sure, in fairy tail land, maybe. Life doesn't always happen accelerated.