If I really loved someone, I don't think I could say that I would not have sex with them. Yeah, the risks are there, and it's not something to play around with. But if this is someone that you care for, someone that you want to be with, I think you'd want to be with them anyway. I think it would be their responsibility as a good person to want to protect you by all means necessary, though. Hmm. It's a toughie. To put myself in that position... what if I was HIV positive? Would I let someone I love have sex with me knowing that there's a chance I could pass it to them?