Maybe it's more than looks. Androgynous means that said person looks good as either gender, right? It doesn't mean, however, they they act a certain way. I'm as much of a guy as the next guy, stereotypically. I love food, and I can't get enough about cars and motors, how much horsepower something has, but I don't look like the average man, and I can't help that. I'm skinny and bug eyed, but I can rebuild an engine at the same time.
Same goes with my boyfriend. He loves football and all the things I like, but he also likes clothes, cooking, and making his hair look pretty. He looks like a guy but he definitely doesn't act any more so than me.
I rarely find myself attracted to feminine acting guys for their personality, but I usually do find them very cute or physically attractive. I don't expect everyone's preferences to be the same, but to say someone is disgusting for how they look is harsh (not saying you said that but in general). People are not always their appearance.