Words to Match the Music in my Head - 4. Chapter 4 Still

I think this is something we must all face as we grow older. I met my husband when I was 20, now I'm 42....does he see me the same...will I still be his joy when I'm 60? 80? A very touching song Gary. I think you struck very close to home for most of your readers with this one.

Out of likes right now, but I enjoyed this. He's asking about the future but by the same token we learn what makes their relationship loving and wonderful right now.

On 06/15/2015 05:10 AM, LitLover said:

I think this is something we must all face as we grow older. I met my husband when I was 20, now I'm 42....does he see me the same...will I still be his joy when I'm 60? 80? A very touching song Gary. I think you struck very close to home for most of your readers with this one.

Thanks, Lit, for taking the time to review. I appreciate your loyalty, and your incredible insight. You always seem to get what I'm saying, and that means so much... cheers...

On 06/15/2015 06:14 AM, Timothy M. said:

Out of likes right now, but I enjoyed this. He's asking about the future but by the same token we learn what makes their relationship loving and wonderful right now.

Exactly right, Tim. What they have is so special, he wants reassurance it will never die, even when he does. Thank you so much... Cheers...

With the pressure to always have the best, the newest - sometimes that translates to relationships and can make the people in them start to feel insecure as they age and THEY feel like they have lost what made them attractive to the other person in the first place.

On 06/15/2015 09:14 AM, EagleIsaac said:

With the pressure to always have the best, the newest - sometimes that translates to relationships and can make the people in them start to feel insecure as they age and THEY feel like they have lost what made them attractive to the other person in the first place.

Interesting take on this song, Eagle... I guess it does, in a way, translate to relationships. I think a little insecurity is a part of aging, and it's okay. A lot, however, can be very damaging. He's asking for a little reassurance from the guy he loves,and if the guy loves him, he gives it to him, and all is well. there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel special, even in old age. Thanks for a great review...cheers...

What will the future bring to any relationship? Some love and reassurance from your partner seems to make all of the worlds troubles disappear. I hear a slow haunting melody underneath your words, something to tug at heartstrings.

There's no way I can say anything right now--I can hardly see to type thanks to the tears. They started before I was even half done, and wouldn't stop even when I finished.
Maybe he wants the reassurance, but I also sense that he already knows the answer.

On 06/15/2015 11:59 AM, Bucket1 said:

What will the future bring to any relationship? Some love and reassurance from your partner seems to make all of the worlds troubles disappear. I hear a slow haunting melody underneath your words, something to tug at heartstrings.

Thank you, Bucket, I hear the same slow melody weaving through the words. We all need reassurance once in a while, especially from the one we love. I really appreciate your thoughts... cheers...

On 06/15/2015 02:20 PM, ColumbusGuy said:

There's no way I can say anything right now--I can hardly see to type thanks to the tears. They started before I was even half done, and wouldn't stop even when I finished.

Maybe he wants the reassurance, but I also sense that he already knows the answer.

CG... I love that you are as emotional as I am. This one was personal, and made me feel that way while writing it. I'm so happy you felt this the way you did... and yes he did know the answer...he just needed to hear it... cheers...

Well, can't personally comment on THIS one! lol

Seriously though, I think everyone, no matter what their gender or sexuality, can be a bit insecure with how they'll 'measure up' as the years progress. A person's feelings for their partner may change in time, and vice-versa. I think as long as the love is strong, and you continue to do the little things that matter for your partner to show how much you love him, then that love will continue through the years. So much so that when there's an urn of ashes up on a mantle, tears will be shed from thinking of the person with love, not just fondness.

Let's see, how many chapters are left, Gary? I need to know if I gotta run out and buy more Kleenex.

On 07/05/2015 12:13 PM, Lisa said:

Well, can't personally comment on THIS one! lol

 

Seriously though, I think everyone, no matter what their gender or sexuality, can be a bit insecure with how they'll 'measure up' as the years progress. A person's feelings for their partner may change in time, and vice-versa. I think as long as the love is strong, and you continue to do the little things that matter for your partner to show how much you love him, then that love will continue through the years. So much so that when there's an urn of ashes up on a mantle, tears will be shed from thinking of the person with love, not just fondness.

 

Let's see, how many chapters are left, Gary? I need to know if I gotta run out and buy more Kleenex.

I think he already knows the answer to his questions... he just wants that reassurance that the very special thing they have is timeless. In a way, it's a thank you for what this person already gives him. It's a love for the ages. Thanks for another wonderful review... poetry, I'm learning, has a small audience, so I love the feedback because I'm really enjoying this new foray... cheers... Gary

Poignant words that no doubt, many will ask their loved one at some point. I still hope to meet that special someone, but maybe life has left me too cynical and I do wonder, at times, if I have enough time left.

1 hour ago, Mancunian said:

Poignant words that no doubt, many will ask their loved one at some point. I still hope to meet that special someone, but maybe life has left me too cynical and I do wonder, at times, if I have enough time left.

Never say never, my friend. I still get emails from my past that let me know I am still thought of. it gives me hope, even at my age. There are some relationships that we just know are going to stand the test of time, but we also know those can be a rarity. Keep the faith.