Green, I read that and I feel you absolutely should say something to Chaz and your Mom...they should be warned as to what they are dealing with. Its weird, freaky and can you say this guy needs major help..and to me (and I am no expert..and don't say this to diagnosis someone..but pathological social pathethic liar)

I worry what he will do next...and I don't trust him around Chaz no less your poor Mom.

I would ask others (i.e. your therapist) who have skills in this area..but that story is too scarey and freaky.

Good Luck,

Michael

Hmm, that's definitely weird, like creepy weird! How'd he know they were Chaz's boxers or did he just take them because they were boxers?

Creepy schmeepy, you guys are too squeamish. Just thrash the stuffing out of the little bugger.

:2hands:

I really dont know. this kid is ruining my life. He called me today asking me not to say anything to Chaz and I ended up yelling at him. I went as far as threatening to call the cops. He didnt back down though. He said he couldn't help it.

Then later on he shows up at my house with Chaz's underwear. You should have seen the look of disgust on my face. "I'm sorry," he said. I have a fetish." once again I didn't know if I should believe him.

So I asked, "You have a wet underwear fetish?"

"Yeah, I love to see people in wet underwear." the look on his eyes told me to move on and I said I had to leave. This is when he notices my bags. "where are you going? he asks.

"I'm going away for a couple of days," I said, careful to leave the part where I was going to see Chaz out. He seems disappointed and then asks me when Chaz was coming back. I just shrugged my shoulders and as my blood temperature increased I noticed someone in the car waiting for him outside. It was my ex, he looked annoyed and honked the horn.

"I have to go we're going to go to lunch see ya." This was ten mintes ago. Luckily he didn't see Chaz pull in behind him. So now I'm afarid to even see this freak. I decided not to tell my mother because she'd think I was lying. So I'm letting her figure it out herself plus it's a little payback for Christmas.

So now I'm off to Chaz's house. See ya in a few days.

Green....this is me screaming....Tell Chaz everything....he has a right to know and I don't trust the psycho, who now is with your ex.......you need to protect each other and red alert everyone you know....this whole thing is too weird..like a Lifetime movie of a psycho killer in the making.....yikes..be careful!!

Michael

That's...so...effing...wierd.

I definately agree, this kid needs to be exposed and dealt with because this isn't just run of the mill crazy this is like psycho crazy you're dealing with. And, I agree with Rocket, you really should tell Chaz, if for nothing else for his safety. I mean to me it seems like just a little bit too big of a coincedence that he is throwing himself all over Chaz and then pulls his one pair of boxers out of the laundry to model them. It's just wierd, and it's probably only going to get worse if you don't do anything about it now.

So I guess the moral of my long and rambling post is be really really careful around crazy, and let Chaz in on it so he can be twice as cautious.

oh my gosh! I feel so sorry for that poor kid, he sounds like he really has some problems. I'd say he needs the best therapy money can buy! I probably would tell Chaz too, but I'm sure you know best. Anyway take care and be careful.

Kevin

the Boxer fetish is pretty common. Awe come now! Who can resist a cute guy in boxers.

Stealing them is over the line though. And the lying thing is pretty f-ed up too.

I feel sorry for the guy. He needs a lot of therepy and support and the sad part is that he probably doesn't think he needs it.