Alright I think i have to clear this up a little. Green is really angry and I told him to post this here because he might be able to reflect his anger. Rob was telling one of his friends about stuff Green had told him in secret. Stuff I didnt even know until now. I mean it was something between the both of them that didnt need to be told to other people.

We were eating at a restaurant near school, Rob didnt see us when he came in with his friend. green was going to say hi when we heard his name. Green sat back down and let him speak. Even I couldnt believe what came out and how he said it.

So green showing his almighty bravado gets up and walks over to him. I tried to pull him back but Rob had already seen him. Green asked him why he was telling this guy all of this and all Rob could say was that it was true. I have to admit I saw it coming. I almost dived to stop him from hitting Rob. That type of stuff you cant recover from later on, you know? Well a few minutes later we're being asked to leave the restaurant by the manager. Green is still angry over there and Rob is still standing outside.

I felt bad for David because he was here with Steve, the guy he is dating (the waiter, sorry I hate labelling people) and Rob yells at him asking who Steve is. Were allw aiting for Selene to show and I need to meet her to stop her from doing something worst. I'm going to go out and speak to Rob. I will fill you guys in later.

Chaz

Green and Chaz,

Ok hugs first...I am sorry that Robert is doing what he is doing. But remember they are his issues (you can fill in the four letter word that begins with s and ends with t...its his not yours Green)

If he is trash talking you...the truth always wins out in the end. I worry about you Green when you throw fists because quite frankly one day its going to end up with you being in jail. That's not a good place to be for one second.

I am glad that you are expressing your anger on paper (I wish you could express it on paper, calm down, come back and look at it and then if you want to in the presence of Chaz and Selene and David express it..then bring Robert over in all of your presence and speak what is on your mind.....without fists....)

Just remember just because someone says it doesn't make it so...we all know you are honest, you don't lie, you don't cheat and if someone is disrespecting you and violating confidences that speaks volumes about them and not you.

I hope you will be ok Green and I hope that you can find a forum to tell Robert how you feel and what his actions do to you emotionally (meaning you feel angry, upset, hurt, pissed off and the fact that he violated your confidences and disrespected you as a human being and whatever you need to say concerning his conduct and words. But please so you look after your physical well being and physical safety, walk away first with Chaz in toe so you can walk outside, scream, emote and let it out but don't use your fists....it will only land you in trouble and not the person who trashed talked you.....

I hope it works out for you.....I am grateful that Chaz was there for you and David and Selene. Just know you are loved and it will be ok....I hope you can express how you feel to Robert (if you can't without fists flying and lots of pain and hurt, then express it and if need be email or have someone deliver a note to him but don't get yourself physically hurt and stressed beyond all get out for someone's lack of boundaries and bad conduct...remember that's his stuff not yours..)

Fingers crossed for you and all of you and thanks Chaz for the explanation...give extra hugs and kisses to Green and he will return them to you....so he feels better and you too:)

Just know that we know you are true Blue, Mr. Green:)

Michael

FIRST TO REACH A HUNDRED BLOG ENTRIES!

Is there a prize? I didn't know. I'll have to hurry.

Green mellow out man. Specially in public. You don't want to get arrested.

Sure- you've got a right to be angry. Just don't let the jawbone of an ass get you in trouble.

Good save Chaz. Fights in cafes are always won by the cops.

-JS

FIRST TO REACH A HUNDRED BLOG ENTRIES!

 

Is there a prize? I didn't know. I'll have to hurry.

 

Green mellow out man. Specially in public. You don't want to get arrested.

 

Sure- you've got a right to be angry. Just don't let the jawbone of an ass get you in trouble.

 

 

Good save Chaz. Fights in cafes are always won by the cops.

 

 

-JS

I don't know...sounds like Green won this one. Green, hope your hand is OK, but I hope you hit the SOB hard enough that it hurts a little bit.

I apologized to Rob this afternoon but I told him that after today I really wanted mothing to do with him. He broke my trust and I cant forgive that. He said he was sorry and I just asked him to leave telling him that he was no longer welcome at my house.

I am not angry anymore and I really shouldn't have hit him but he had it coming. Sometimes people never learn from their mistakes I know that he is going to go out and tell people more personal stuff about me and that really makes me angry but I know I cant control that. He will tell anyone what ever he wants and make me look like I am the bad guy.

GREEN

He will tell anyone what ever he wants and make me look like I am the bad guy.

Not really Green. By going out and talking trash, it makes him look like an embittered ex, jerk, tossed out roomate, etc.

He draws more attention to himself than he does you. It makes people wonder what he has left out: the other side of the story.

Someone hearing him talk s**t is going to wonder- did Green catch him snorting coke in his house and kick him out? Was he having sex with sheep dogs or running the pre-schoolers prostitution ring out of the basement?

The problem with slinging s**t is that you inevitably get it on yourself.

Green,

To add to what James says it always tells the other person or persons to whom Robert is telling personal stuff about you to be very weary of Rob...because if he gets upset with them then he will trash talk about them and tell their secrets.....so people hearing his trash talk are going to want to avoid him and not trust him....he isn't exhibiting the qualities one wants in a friend is he? who wants someone who doesn't keep confidences and trash talks about people after a dispute.

Add to that and anyone who knows you will know what is the truth and what isn't and that is what matters.

Fear not and save your hands for giving hugs to Chaz and those you love:) and save your energy and words for good things:)

Michael

WAYYYYY for 100 blogs Mr Green

an huggles 2 make u feel good. I kno you ain t the bad guy.

mikie

Congrats on 100 entries mate

I can't say anything about the situation that hasn't already been said. He was wrong for talking about you, you were wrong for hitting him. He's broken your trust and it's up to you if you can forgive that - I never could. I'm sure you'll handle it just right though - and if not Chaz will keep you on the straight and narrow.