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2am Phone Calls


Brother [M] called at 1:44am this morning. Dad -- who would have turned 100 on Oct. 7th -- had been sliding a bit but not rapidly. We expected something soon - but not this soon.

He was hurting quite a bit last night so Hospice gave him what M called "a very tiny amount" of morphine just to knock the edge off the pain.  Before he left they said his vital signs were really good.  He hadn't been sleeping that well. The morphine allowed him to relax enough to go into a deep sleep and...just didn't wake up.  Much worse ways to go (like watching mom linger for four days), and he had a long life. He'd outlived everyone except my brother and I -- all of his siblings, all of his friends. And we know he was ready to go. He's made that statement for some time.

So, a lot of conflicting emotions at the moment.

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chris191070

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Sorry for your loss :hug:

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drpaladin

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Losing a parent is rough no matter your age. You are fortunate to have had him so long.

kbois

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So sorry Fae.  Letting go is hard.

*hugs*

rickproehl

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Fae, so sorry to hear about your loss. Take care.

Mikiesboy

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i am so sorry to hear of your loss.  much love and hugs xoxo

Wayne Gray

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It's never easy losing someone. And we're never really ready ...

Take care of yourself, Fae. We're here if you need to talk.

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