Right.. it was the other day.

I got up early so i could be nice to my mum for one day. Just one day wasnt going to hurt was it?

So i got up , i made her a cup of tea and got a chocolate eclair out the fridge for her ready for when she gets back from the weekly shop.

So she gets home and i give her a hug ( i was feeling good ) and a peck on the cheek and she seems quite happy. She walks into the room and sees the tea and smiles lightly.. i offered to bring the shopping in. Good Deed 2.

But then , she groans at me saying "john why did you put it there , it doesnt go there." That started to get on my chest.

Then it comes late afternoon

Dad has a dentist appointment next week but we had a different time on the calendar than to the letter. I took it into the living room and in the nicest way possible i pointed it out to her. She freaked. "how dare you say that i made a mistake , go put the calendar back you little sh** ". i didnt even say it was her mistake and then she went on about how its not even her handwriting.. her's and my dad's are identical practically.

Then i tried being nice again by starting to tidy the house , we got a little behind on the tidyness cuz we have had alot of guests recently and then she snapped about saying that i shouldnt be tidying its her job. So i just dropped everything and walked upstairs and sat in my room for an hour and cried.

Every time i try to help or be nice to her she just throws it back in my face!

So i've come to the conclusion that i'm only speaking to her when spoken to and not attempting to be a nice person again

Thats fair right? I did nothing wrong... i didnt offend her as i usually do... i didnt flip at her as i often do... its just like as soon as i try something nice and new she loses it with me.

Oh well..

Two years time and shes not my problem anymore.