Thorn Wilde Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 (edited) 41 minutes ago, Mikiesboy said: no.. that isn't .. but it seems i am supposed to feel that way about my job and other crap i do not want to do. and i don't feel that way. anyway i should be going to get ready for work... see you later. Well... I kind of wish I had someone I loved that way. I don’t really have a reason to jump out of bed at all. I love boyfriend, but not with that kind of devotion, I don’t think. The rest... I hope you find it. Edited January 31, 2019 by Thorn Wilde 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mollyhousemouse Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 39 minutes ago, Mikiesboy said: i know i am sad but i can't think of much that would make me want to jump outta bed...except to look after Michael. yeah, i love my bed, not much makes me want to jump out of it lol! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorn Wilde Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 13 minutes ago, mollyhousemouse said: yeah, i love my bed, not much makes me want to jump out of it lol! Getting out of bed this morning was haaaard! I know getting up at 9 is nothing to you guys (what is it, 7 or 8 over there?) but I normally sleep until noon, lol! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichaelS36 Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 59 minutes ago, Mikiesboy said: that's the best damn reason i can think of ... He is everything to me. as you are to Me, boy. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichaelS36 Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 48 minutes ago, Thorn Wilde said: Well... I kind of wish I had someone I loved that way. I don’t really have a reason to jump out of bed at all. I love boyfriend, but not with that kind of devotion, I don’t think. The rest... I hope you find it. Loving him is enough. You are not a submissive, like tim and molly. But you say 'I don't think'. Did you help him while he was so ill? Make him soup, give him a drink? That is devotion ... what is devotion? Love, loyalty? It's not necessarily slavish. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorn Wilde Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 Just now, MichaelS36 said: Loving him is enough. You are not a submissive, like tim and molly. But you say 'I don't think'. Did you help him while he was so ill? Make him soup, give him a drink? That is devotion ... what is devotion? Love, loyalty? It's not necessarily slavish. You’re right, I did do that. As he did for me. Thank you. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichaelS36 Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 Just now, Thorn Wilde said: You’re right, I did do that. As he did for me. Thank you. tim and I are devoted to each other ... we need each other. These bonds take time and effort. For us its been ten years ... look at molly and Phil, if i recall correctly over 30 years together much of it living our Lifestyle. No relationship is simple, or easy. You and your BF have to define yours and what works. That concludes our relationship lecture for this morning. LOL. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorn Wilde Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 10 minutes ago, MichaelS36 said: tim and I are devoted to each other ... we need each other. These bonds take time and effort. For us its been ten years ... look at molly and Phil, if i recall correctly over 30 years together much of it living our Lifestyle. No relationship is simple, or easy. You and your BF have to define yours and what works. That concludes our relationship lecture for this morning. LOL. Well, you’re good at it. Could make a good living as a relationship counsellor. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kitt Posted January 31, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted January 31, 2019 56 minutes ago, mollyhousemouse said: yeah, i love my bed, not much makes me want to jump out of it lol! Same here, especially when hubby is still in it! 2 2 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MichaelS36 Posted January 31, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted January 31, 2019 1 minute ago, Thorn Wilde said: Well, you’re good at it. Could make a good living as a relationship counsellor. I was a cop for a number of years.. traffic and then a detective working with luring cases and child pornography. I left the force when I got an offer to work with a friend, also an ex-cop who has his own security business but also a private dungeon. So, I do some work with the security business but being a professional Dom is very fulfilling. I do a lot of counseling in that role. 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichaelS36 Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 8 minutes ago, Kitt said: Same here, especially when hubby is still in it! Kitt ... tmi ...LOL 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichaelS36 Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 I have some subs who need to see me today. However, I will be making housecalls. It's too cold for them to be waiting on the street for buses. So I'll be around later perhaps. Enjoy your days. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mollyhousemouse Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 42 minutes ago, MichaelS36 said: tim and I are devoted to each other ... we need each other. These bonds take time and effort. For us its been ten years ... look at molly and Phil, if i recall correctly over 30 years together much of it living our Lifestyle. No relationship is simple, or easy. You and your BF have to define yours and what works. That concludes our relationship lecture for this morning. LOL. morning Michael Sir yes 30+ years together more than 20 living this way the love grows & deepens @Thorn Wilde 18 minutes ago, MichaelS36 said: I have some subs who need to see me today. However, I will be making housecalls. It's too cold for them to be waiting on the street for buses. So I'll be around later perhaps. Enjoy your days. good to see You Sir be safe out there making those housecalls see everyone later 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorn Wilde Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 27 minutes ago, MichaelS36 said: I was a cop for a number of years.. traffic and then a detective working with luring cases and child pornography. I left the force when I got an offer to work with a friend, also an ex-cop who has his own security business but also a private dungeon. So, I do some work with the security business but being a professional Dom is very fulfilling. I do a lot of counseling in that role. I can imagine. It sounds like very rewarding work. 22 minutes ago, MichaelS36 said: I have some subs who need to see me today. However, I will be making housecalls. It's too cold for them to be waiting on the street for buses. So I'll be around later perhaps. Enjoy your days. You as well. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorn Wilde Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 5 minutes ago, mollyhousemouse said: morning Michael Sir yes 30+ years together more than 20 living this way the love grows & deepens @Thorn Wilde Yeah. My longest relationship was six and a half years. That one I think was kind of the opposite... At least for him, I think. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitt Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 I guess i am the record holder around here. 36 yrs last october. Thats not to say there were not rough times, including thoughts of divorce, counciling, even crazy dreams of becoming a widow, but we hung in and worked through things. I think we are happier now than ever before. Its worth the effort. Its like building a house, start low and work up. You cant ecpect perfection on day 1. I didnt even know what perfection would be on my wedding day. 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorn Wilde Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 (edited) 11 minutes ago, Kitt said: I guess i am the record holder around here. 36 yrs last october. Thats not to say there were not rough times, including thoughts of divorce, counciling, even crazy dreams of becoming a widow, but we hung in and worked through things. I think we are happier now than ever before. Its worth the effort. Its like building a house, start low and work up. You cant ecpect perfection on day 1. I didnt even know what perfection would be on my wedding day. That kind of thing seems so distant to me... My parents were never married. My mum and my stepdad have been married for sixteen years, on the day actually. My grandparents were married for a loooong time, but their relationship was always a bit... different. They had kind of an odd dynamic. I’ve never even thought far enough ahead for marriage... I mean, I fantasised when I was younger, of course. I guess I thought I’d probably marry my ex-boyfriend... But now, with my whole gender identity thing and everything else I’m just like, will I even be a bride or a groom? Lol! Edited January 31, 2019 by Thorn Wilde 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brayon Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 A little hard to do school work, when the website is down for emergency maintenance. C-ya around y'all. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorn Wilde Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 11 minutes ago, BHopper2 said: A little hard to do school work, when the website is down for emergency maintenance. C-ya around y'all. Yeah, that sounds kind of hopeless. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitt Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 1 hour ago, Thorn Wilde said: will I even be a bride or a groom? Does that really matter in the long run? Call it spouse. The important thing is to choose the right person for you, regardless of sex. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichaelS36 Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 1 hour ago, Thorn Wilde said: I’ve never even thought far enough ahead for marriage... I mean, I fantasised when I was younger, of course. I guess I thought I’d probably marry my ex-boyfriend... But now, with my whole gender identity thing and everything else I’m just like, will I even be a bride or a groom? Lol! You don't have to get married, unless you both choose that. To me it was important. My parents have a wonderful marriage, and I wanted that too. But that piece of paper can mean nothing, it guarantees nothing. Marriage only works, when you both want it to. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichaelS36 Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 One more sub to see in a couple of hours … only thing with visiting them at home is that they want to feed you. Which is very sweet... lol. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitt Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 4 minutes ago, MichaelS36 said: You don't have to get married, unless you both choose that. To me it was important. My parents have a wonderful marriage, and I wanted that too. But that piece of paper can mean nothing, it guarantees nothing. Marriage only works, when you both want it to. And it takes both working at it. The only times I thought we might not make it was when one of us didn't want to put in the effort. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mollyhousemouse Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 (edited) 5 minutes ago, MichaelS36 said: One more sub to see in a couple of hours … only thing with visiting them at home is that they want to feed you. Which is very sweet... lol. that is sweet shows they care Sir Edited January 31, 2019 by mollyhousemouse damned tiny phone keys 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MichaelS36 Posted January 31, 2019 Share Posted January 31, 2019 Just now, mollyhousemouse said: thatvis sweet shows they care Sir you're right, molly, it does. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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