Personal space like that shouldn't be violated and I would hate for people to go through my cell phone history. My mother did that and that just opened up interrogations all the time.. lol. So that alone is part of the reason why I don't snoop and I hate when people snoop on my stuff.
I am understanding enough to forgive that person.. if they did snoop, but if they become controlling or it becomes a habit for them then there will be problems.
I put my new years resolutions into action... even though I break them shortly after. I also watch sports that day too.. haha.. But to "welcome in the new year" I may or may not go out on the town...
At least with this short lived Holiday no cooking is involved, thankfully.
Sometimes you just have to take your loss to save your sanity.. I think your mother has to come to that realization herself, I doubt you'll change her mind otherwise. Not very optimistic though.
And I told you a C wasn't that bad. You can easily recover from a C.