My innocent eyes have been dirtied!!
Lol.
I've heard of cruising, however I can't say I know anyone in RL who cruises, nor do I know of any of the good cruising places. I think some people get off on having sex in public, and I can somewhat understand that. After all the thrill...
But I also think that there are also those individuals who don't want to be caught having sex with another man, and therefore instead of doing stuff in their own home, or doing stuff in the house of their potential partners, they seek a public place... where they can be somewhat safe.
but that would be my thought on the matter. and since i know very little of the scene... i could be 150% wrong.
So what do I think about cruising? Well I don't necessarily feel its a healthy thing for people to do, I certainly have no intention of trying that out... but if you're going to do then make sure and protection. a body condom even. (kidding) Protection for yourself, and for your faceless (or the face that you won't likely remember) partner.
I think this happens because the overall gay community doesn't want to be associated with the negative aspects. Ya know? for example, not every gay man/woman is always having random sex with strangers, we're not all lispy, or effeminate and what not.
Good topic James
Sincerely,
James