I decided it was time to address the trans issue, since it is so misunderstood, and I felt Joshie and Bennie would be the two best situated to lead us through the discussion. Yes, I'm not surprised that you expected Dion and Trey to be part of the GSA, but they've stayed out of it for two reasons. First, the wanted the boys to take leadership and make their own stand on whatever issues that came up. The other was that they had to pick up the other boys and take them home after school, which would interfere with the meetings. I hope that explains things for you.
Yes, it is good to see that TJ is settling in at the house and his dads are getting back into the swing of deal with a baby and the nightly feedings.