Well..i've been asked to explain it all so i am going to.
I will start with the less case scenario and build up
CASE 1 - My Dad
Raised in a care home from the age of 5. both parents died when he was five. he has worked all his life for everything and is a brilliant dad to me. i love him pieces. he is a very funny man and nothing else than honest. However , i cant tell him things. if i tell him stuff , he just goes ahead and tells mum. Thats why i dont trust him anymore , i never want to lose him , i love him so much and i respect beyond anything. he is a model of a man and something people should aspire to be like. Out of my two parents he is the one who i have the least problems with , we laugh about mum when she gets stressy but if i tell him stuff he tells her.