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Lol aw <3

I have noticed a few things about the colors of my own walls. A year ago, the upstairs was blue which made me feel sad, and the downstairs was a dark gray which made me depressed. A while back, I repainted them. My downstairs was painted red, and the upstairs was a light sage green. After that I noticed that I felt happier upstairs and more relaxed, and downstairs, I felt warmer, and for some reason, me and my boyfriend always want to have sex down there.

Average Male too, that was interesting XD

Maybe it's more than looks. Androgynous means that said person looks good as either gender, right? It doesn't mean, however, they they act a certain way. I'm as much of a guy as the next guy, stereotypically. I love food, and I can't get enough about cars and motors, how much horsepower something has, but I don't look like the average man, and I can't help that. I'm skinny and bug eyed, but I can rebuild an engine at the same time. Same goes with my boyfriend. He loves football and all the things I like, but he also likes clothes, cooking, and making his hair look pretty. He looks like a guy but he definitely doesn't act any more so than me. I rarely find myself attracted to feminine acting guys for their personality, but I usually do find them very cute or physically attractive. I don't expect everyone's preferences to be the same, but to say someone is disgusting for how they look is harsh (not saying you said that but in general). People are not always their appearance.

I'm pretty androgynous myself, and it doesn't bother me. I think its actually very pretty with the right person. (I would have thought the guy was a girl though. He's still cute. XD )

Happy Birthday =D

My critter is a monster

Butter face

only hispanic mix one in here so far >_<' someone bettter make me feel part of the group

Oh fun. XD I'm not exactly sure about everything, but I know for certain (as of recently) that my real father was Hispanic, and his mother was from Chile, and his father from Mexico. My mom's side is probably Italian mxed with a whole bunch of stuff, and have been in the US for a long time, I'm guessing. I don't know a lot about either side of my family to say for sure.

Happy Birthday <3

I'd recommend something like Microsoft Works, or something you can save your text as HTML as. Im sorry Im not much help, Im not even an author.

Im no expert, but try saving the file as HTML and uploading it.

I really doubt sagging identified gay bottoms in prison. In prison, there are few pant sizes, not guaranteed to fit 100%. They don't distribute belts for suicide/fighting reasons (they also don't give out shoelaces) so basically some guys walk around with sagging pants. When rap was becoming popular, a lot of rappers would focus on their stints in prison, which is how sagging became a trend, to look like a prison convict. I bet someone just made up the story that sagging was a way for others to identify a gay bottom. It's just another way to play something off as "that's GAY" so they won't do it. In my opinion, it's a bit homophobic to say if you dress this way, you're gay and retarded, especially when it's obviously not true. As for bottoms, I wouldn't say lazy either, it's just preference.

I saw it! Loved it <3

Yay! You can cook me food again. =D

Happy Birthday! <3 <3 <3

maybe that's their way of saying their truck is a boy.

Lol old photo. I might delete it cause I'm embarrassed by my fat glasses.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NEPHY! -gets naked and streaks-

A little bit of support goes a long way. Direct actions do guarantee results, it's not wrong, but there's more to it than getting it done and saying it's done. I'll use addicts as an example because it's something I know. A family throwing an addict away in jail is a direct action. It will force them to sober up, it will have them off the street as a potential criminal, and as a burden to a family not willing to take the extra time and effort to help their child. It's a guaranteed result, but how long does it stay effective? They come out of jail, sober, but not with any more knowledge than they had before jail. They don't know how to deal with their addiction, or how to stay sober, and most end up doing the junk again. Now, I'm not saying direct actions do nothing, I think that there NEED to be some things done directly and soon. However, I believe (and I may not be right) that every direct action needs backing, things to keep it staying effective. For example, with the addict, your direct action would be to put your son/daughter in rehab. Rehab is designed to work with addicts, with programs to support a healthy drug-free lifestyle, and help addicts find what makes them addicted to drugs so they can fix the problems. It's going to achieve results, but after rehab, there's still more to do. You have to support them, be there for them, find out why they go to drugs, etc. There's no correct method. It won't always be a direct action + support = result. Sometimes it's backwards, again with addicts: some aren't ready for help, and you support them (not their addiction, there's a difference) as much as you can until they are ready, which means it would be support + direct action = result. What I'm trying to say (or what I think I'm saying, I got carried away) is you need BOTH. One way or the other is probably not going to work. Also remember that result does not equal solved. Result is a change. A lot of addicts slip up on their way to sobriety. You just keep working to get it better and better. (sorry if it doesn't make sense. Also, sorry I made it sound like the thread is about addicts. It's not, just an example I used to explain something. I didn't know any other way to say it.)

I don't think for a minute that wearing purple was meant for anything other than honoring those affected by bullying and to help support a cause. Support doesn't mean solution, so the more support, the better. To me, it made me happy, especially when I walked in the house and saw my parents both wearing purple. That raised my spirits a lot. I live in the south, so it gets pretty depressing living in a state where many people don't accept you, but seeing things like a gay pride march, or even something small like a gay pride bumper stick, can make my day a whole lot better. This was productive, even if it didn't yield physical results. It made some people stronger, or feel like they could keep going, and that's one more person to help fight with the cause. If it didn't benefit you at all, then that's okay, but it probably benefited a lot of people in the end. It's like exercise in a way, one night of working out won't do much, but if you exercise routinely, you get results. We just need to keep adding support, options, and solutions to this problem, which I hope doesn't remain a problem for long.

I'm a story abandon-er >_> Of course, I only ever posted one thing, I just got sick.

Naw, she's just gonna go Tom Cruise and slide through her house listening to Bob Seger. P.S: Thanks Nephy, low immune system, it makes it hard. <3

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