Well... ley me tell you... straight guys may say that girls are confusing and they dont get them... and that is true... i dont get girls and i am 100% gay... the still confuse the hell outta me... any way they just don't know that they are as equally confusing. They seem to think that it is okie to flirt with other boys. They do this at my school all the time... like grab each others asses and stuff like that... and call each other hot... its just wierd and it confuses the hell outta us closested (and some what closeted) individuals. I am in a simualar situtation (just read all of my blog entries and you will get it) and one minute they will say that they have crush on some girl and then the next thing they tell you that they like the way you smell... and then they will say something like "That girl is hot." and then follow it up with a "Yeah that guy has some great abs." and then wink at you... so yeah... it is so confusing.

But the best thing i can offer you is just to vent here... it does make you feel better... i have appologized in my blog a few times for bitching to much on here... but yeah... i am glad that you have seemed to work it out... good luck with that... and feel free to talk to me any time... i stay on live chat alot. or drop me a line in my blog.

later ~ nick

Hmmm perhaps they're just all bisexual Just kidding of course!

Hey Adam

I'm sorry stuff is so confusing with Max right now. One thing though, weren't you supposed to give HIM the hug? One question, I know you're out to some of your friends, does this include Max? It's possible that he's also confused about your "relationship". I mean even if he were gay (and I'm completely speculating here and really don't mean to get your hopes up about him being gay) maybe you keep sending him signals or whatever, but then backing off. Perhaps he's the one who's given up and now he's just talking about his girl crush because he figures you're not into him. But that's just wild speculation and I'm probably off base. Anyway friendship is good, you can always see what'll develop from there. Especially since it'll be easier to gage his sexuality and interest level if you guys are close. Just be care and don't put yourself in any bad situations

Anyway yeah that sucks about the Bahamas. I guess I'll have to make a mental note not to go there on my honeymoon after my comittment ceremony

Take care and have an awesome day!

Kevin

Hi Adam!!

In my humble opinion, if you are friends with this guy (not just passing aquantances (sp? )...I would say go give him a huge hug and if he says anything about it...tell him you were "soooo scared of his unexpected revenge and didn't want to feel his wrath!" all the while batting your eyes and looking totally innocent. This way you can either A] pull it off as a joke if he starts to act a little weird saying how you were just doing as you were told. or B] give him another quick hug if he looks like he enjoyed it and simply say "hugs are nice, we should do this more often" and leave it at that. I don't know. Just a thought, but I think boys need to come with instruction manuals. lol I hope you have a good weekend! And go have some fun!

- Kaiten