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Lesson's learned while at GA

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At times I can be stubborn, but I've looked back over my time here at GA and found that I've come to accept (note accept, not tolerate) two facts:

 

1) Some guys who claim to be bisexual really are bisexual.

 

2) Some Gay Fiction readers skip over the sex scenes.

 

For guys who claimed to be bisexual, I always assumed that they were just in denial, confused, or were just on a journey towards pure gayness. I knew better. I looked them in the eyes with a knowing look (well, as much as you can look someone in the eyes via the internet). But after much debate and discussion, I do believe there are true bisexuals.

 

I still believe that some identified bisexuals are in denial, confused, etc, but there are some real ones.

 

The other fact is harder to get my hands around. I mean, skip the sex scenes? Why even read the stories? I can see women skipping them over, or those who've been assigned to read the stories by some crafty English Lit Teaching Assistant, but gay guys? :wacko: .

 

*Sigh*, I don't know, maybe it's because I turned 40 this year, but I accept that they're out there. They've taken our abuse and disdain for too long, but now they have my sympathy and acceptance.

 

Vic

 

P.S. - Domluka is close to breaking 400,000 views on his blog. Even if you consider 100,000 of those views were mine, that still leaves about 300,000 others! Wow! Having him return from his hiatus has sure made this more fun for me. I couldn't ask for a better Christmas present :D

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hh5

hh5 334

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Isn't it also true that maybe some of those that said GAY maybe be BI?

As for #2, in a good story, I do read the sex scene (if any) ... if I want poorly written ones or an overload of sex => there's Nifty

If its written really good (even explicit) then it comes from a gifted writer

But I gather from what you're saying in #2, there has to be more to meaning of love than just purely sex.

Mark Arbour

Mark Arbour 99,497

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You're expected to look at Dom's blog all the time now that you're engaged (well, more or less). :D

shadowgod

shadowgod 522

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well Merry Christmas Vic (no I had nothing to do with Dom's return, but I think you were fishing :P ) Btw... went to portillos again... still don't see the lure :blink: maybe I am blind or just a really really crappy foody :)

Former Member

Former Member 5,629

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Skipping Sex Scenes? If its really creepy sex then yes i skip it. If it's really good sex then i read it. Hell i even read Hetero Romance novels with lots of sex and sometimes i dont skip that at all. If its really good :) I just pretend that im the girl lmao its from her point of veiw anyways mwa ha ha.....

 

Yep Vic & Dom are Engaged i was the 1 that started that :) 2025 is the wedding. BUT you can send wedding presents and gift cards cheques money orders etc etc to me :)

 

Christmas did come early :) and its a good thing. Ho ho ho!

Objectivist

Objectivist 1

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oh oh oh!!!

 

I skip sex scenes!

 

Not all the time but mostly yeah. I don't care to read them quite frankly, and it depends on where the sex scene is. but meh. its not all that interesting.... especially in a story that i want to read for the sake of reading a good story, but whateva. im weird.

 

laterz vic ^.^

 

James

Drewbie

Drewbie 153

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oh oh oh!!!

 

I skip sex scenes!

 

Not all the time but mostly yeah. I don't care to read them quite frankly, and it depends on where the sex scene is. but meh. its not all that interesting.... especially in a story that i want to read for the sake of reading a good story, but whateva. im weird.

 

laterz vic ^.^

 

James

 

Only time i will skip one is if it's poorly written,

 

James i'm not surprised anti hugger :P

B1ue

B1ue 724

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I'm with James on this. I usually find myself skipping the sex scenes, particularly on stories that I'm reading for the plot. THis is partially due to the fact that I often skip long descriptions on any story, and hunt down the dialog. Sex scenes fall through the cracks there.

 

The stories that are unabashed porn are a whole 'nother kettle of fish. If they are particularly well written, I'll come back later and reread the same scene again.

 

--Gabe

sat8997

sat8997 552

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You forgot #3: Sharon is always right ;)

 

 

 

You're expected to look at Dom's blog all the time now that you're engaged (well, more or less). :D

 

Stop encouraging him, you're going to scare Dom, causing him to flee 'StalkerVic'.

DomLuka

DomLuka 7,528

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You forgot #3: Sharon is always right ;)
You're expected to look at Dom's blog all the time now that you're engaged (well, more or less). :D

 

Stop encouraging him, you're going to scare Dom, causing him to flee 'StalkerVic'.

 

 

Actually, it

Mark Arbour

Mark Arbour 99,497

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Oh my God Vic! Dom posted on your blog! *giggles and shrieks like a high school girl*

sat8997

sat8997 552

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:lmao: Okay the visual of that made me laugh!
NaperVic

NaperVic 161

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Actually, it's Vic who'd have to worry about fleeing. I have family members who would happily march him down the isle at gunpoint if they thought I was gettin' hitched.

 

Aww, my new inlaws are so cute. They're going to love the dowry I'm going to give them. :D

 

*runs off to register us at Crate & Barrel*

Former Member

Former Member 5,629

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Do you have the Something borrowed? Something blue? (ha ha now after i say blue i think of Blue Balls) Something Old and Something new?

Vic at least you wont have a hard time writing your vows it's Dom everyone loves him so everyone could help you write your vows :)

Also it has to be an outdoor wedding to fit all the members its gonna be 1 big Shindig! The party of the Millienium :)

sat8997

sat8997 552

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Do you have the Something borrowed? Something blue? (ha ha now after i say blue i think of Blue Balls) Something Old and Something new?

Vic at least you wont have a hard time writing your vows it's Dom everyone loves him so everyone could help you write your vows :)

Also it has to be an outdoor wedding to fit all the members its gonna be 1 big Shindig! The party of the Millienium :)

 

I have this irresistible urge to say Vic's already 'Something Old'...but I'm not going to. 0:)

WatchPatRun

WatchPatRun 101

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LOL There is just something about the sex scenes in stories here on GA that just don't do too much for me. Sometimes I skip over them, not even going to lie. I'm more into romance than lust. Which when you write about sex, usually it seems to be more on the lust factor. That's just my opinion though =]

old bob

old bob 321

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About "real" bi's, I have just to say that I'm one of them :P , and an happy one ! :D

And the sex scenes in GA stories are just an occasion to refresh the good old memories from my last 65 years (I had my first experiences when I was 14) :rolleyes: .

Dion

Dion 168

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I'm confused. Are you saying that there are sex scenes and people don't read them? Or are you saying there aren't enough sex scenes? Speaking purely from a personal POV, I skip over reading sex scenes because that's not why I'm reading the story in the first place. If they're tactfully written and contribute to the overall story, then I'll read them. As for writing them, I don't for two reasons. One, because I believe that to be against GA's rules for eFiction and two, because that isn't where I want my readers to focus. I hope that what I write is good enough that they'll enjoy it anyway.

 

As for bisexuals, I'm glad you've changed your mind.

NaperVic

NaperVic 161

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I'm confused. Are you saying that there are sex scenes and people don't read them? Or are you saying there aren't enough sex scenes?

 

I'm saying both, I guess. :D

 

For example, Domluka's story The Lo(n)g Way had well written & probably just enough sex scenes in it (of course this is all IMHO). I've heard that some readers skip over these sex scenes. So Yes to your first inquiry B) .

 

More recent stories by this same author have fewer sex scenes, if none at all. Much is left to our imagination to fill in the blanks. If you're interested in background and discussion about this, there's a thread How does Dennis like it in the Domaholic's forum where the topic was resurrected. I also added some links to other threads on the topic.

 

So for inquiry #2, Yes, I would like more sex scenes in these later stories B) . But please note, this is not a demand or pleading for more sex in the stories. I thoroughly enjoy the stories as is (with or without sex scenes).

 

Hope this answers your questions.

 

Take Care®,

 

Vic

corvus

corvus 146

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2) Some Gay Fiction readers skip over the sex scenes.

 

What if the reason I skip over sex scenes is that I get too embarrassed to read them? What if I'm ... deeply ashamed to read of my beloved characters doing icky gay things... !?

 

Just kidding. I don't like sex scenes that stall the story, but otherwise, I love them. ^_^

Mark Arbour

Mark Arbour 99,497

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What if the reason I skip over sex scenes is that I get too embarrassed to read them? What if I'm ... deeply ashamed to read of my beloved characters doing icky gay things... !?

 

Just kidding. I don't like sex scenes that stall the story, but otherwise, I love them. ^_^

 

 

"icky?" LMAO.

 

Hey Vic, Dom posted on my blog too. Neener neener neener. :D

sat8997

sat8997 552

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Hey Vic, Dom posted on my blog too. Neener neener neener. :D

 

It is not a competition, we're just happy to have Dom posting anywhere. Even if he's never posted in my blog. <_<

NaperVic

NaperVic 161

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Hey Vic, Dom posted on my blog too. Neener neener neener. :D

 

It is not a competition, we're just happy to have Dom posting anywhere. Even if he's never posted in my blog. <_<

 

:blink: Wow, I'd expect more maturity from the two of you..especially considering your ages together add up to over 100.

 

As you've said, this isn't a competition. I hope poor Dom isn't going to feel like he has to post in everyone's blogs.

Mark Arbour

Mark Arbour 99,497

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Hey Vic, Dom posted on my blog too. Neener neener neener. :D

 

It is not a competition, we're just happy to have Dom posting anywhere. Even if he's never posted in my blog. <_<

 

:blink: Wow, I'd expect more maturity from the two of you..especially considering your ages together add up to over 100.

 

As you've said, this isn't a competition. I hope poor Dom isn't going to feel like he has to post in everyone's blogs.

 

My blog loses it's "Dom Cherry" and you guys are just not excited for me at all. I'm going to go pout.

sat8997

sat8997 552

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Hey Vic, Dom posted on my blog too. Neener neener neener. :D

 

It is not a competition, we're just happy to have Dom posting anywhere. Even if he's never posted in my blog. <_<

 

:blink: Wow, I'd expect more maturity from the two of you..especially considering your ages together add up to over 100.

 

As you've said, this isn't a competition. I hope poor Dom isn't going to feel like he has to post in everyone's blogs.

 

My blog loses it's "Dom Cherry" and you guys are just not excited for me at all. I'm going to go pout.

 

Jeez :blink:

 

A guy gets engaged and turns into the proper police. Mark I think we should reconsider that shower we were planning.

NaperVic

NaperVic 161

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Jeez :blink:

 

A guy gets engaged and turns into the proper police. Mark I think we should reconsider that shower we were planning.

 

My husband to be (HTB) expects better of me 0:)

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