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If you can manage to come out on your own terms at a time of your choosing, I doubt that anyone would regret it.

 

Being outted before you're emotionally ready and/or way too young is a disaster.

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I regret HOW and WHEN I came out. I was outed way, way before I was ready in a very hostile environment that instantly became abusive.

 

That's why I stress to our young-lings that they need to be really careful about how they go about it.

 

It hurts me- I mean really messes me up-  when I see kids going through some of the same shit I did.

 

There's no need for it and, it leaves scars that are very slow to heal.

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I came out a little bit in college, then went monastic again because I was like a monk before (I've never been good at calling myself a nun). I came out fully to someone special, an unrequited love.It was a series of letting everyone know I was queer. Am i a true lesbian? I like to think myself as one.

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