Popular Post Headstall Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 53 minutes ago, Bucket1 said: Good to see that doesn’t have to happen anymore. Some of that drives me crazy, just like the mandatory miserable ending to so many of our stories. I was reading up on the history of gay stories, gay pulp fiction, and almost threw something at the computer when I read that the “drama”, the completely unnatural tragedy in all those stories was written that way to get published. Gay stories could only get published if they showed just how terrible LGBTIQA lives “really” were. need to do some more research on that but it made me sick reading it it has always bothered me too. It was always that gay men were hustlers, drug addicts, pedophiles, murderers, predators, extremely effeminate and bitchy(I like effeminate and bitchy , but they were usually twisted in some way) and gay men always died. None of them could figure out how to be happy. No wonder it took me so long to come to terms with who I was. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Headstall Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 48 minutes ago, spike382 said: It's still an issue in gay fiction I think. Not for the same homophobic reasons as yesteryear, but maybe just from either a lot of stories being set in the past or, the crazy party lifestyle that is the stereotype of the gay culture. There's a plethora of stories here on GA with couples in stable relationships, happy endings etc. But not nearly as much in the mainstream. I crave the kind of stuff I can read on here being portrayed in visual media. There's some good ones I've found over the last few years, but so many still end with people breaking up or, being on drugs, or committing suicide, or something along those lines. Hence why Heartstopper was something that was a massive breath of fresh air for how it treated being queer. It still touches on the realities of being "different" and there's still conflicts that arise, but at the end of the day they are happy being who they are. It was almost something that could have been written by several of the authors here on GA. "Love, Simon" too. Yeah, so many suicides in mainstream gay writing, and "Brokeback Mountain" paints an equally tragic picture. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Headstall Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 5 minutes ago, spike382 said: Everyone's journey is different. On the plus side, you got some great kids out of yours. And grandkids. The best thing ever! 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Page Scrawler Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 17 minutes ago, spike382 said: my brother-in-law did try it, and he barely chocked it down. I knew then I'd made a wise choice I've heard that they can become rubbery if overcooked, which is easy to do. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post spike382 Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 8 minutes ago, Headstall said: it has always bothered me too. It was always that gay men were hustlers, drug addicts, pedophiles, murderers, predators, extremely effeminate and bitchy(I like effeminate and bitchy , but they were usually twisted in some way) and gay men always died. None of them could figure out how to be happy. No wonder it took me so long to come to terms with who I was. 5 minutes ago, Headstall said: "Love, Simon" too. Yeah, so many suicides in mainstream gay writing, and "Brokeback Mountain" paints an equally tragic picture. It's funny with how far we have come , it can still go back to the tragic gay guys who are miserable. At least the gay cowboys in your story had a proper ending Gary. Love, Simon was great. Heatstopper is right up there with that. I can't stop talking about it lol 5 minutes ago, Headstall said: And grandkids. The best thing ever! Those are alway more fun I'm told, cause at the end of the day you get to be the fun one with them. 5 minutes ago, Page Scrawler said: I've heard that they can become rubbery if overcooked, which is easy to do. Yeah that's pretty much what he said. Maybe I wouldn't mind it that much. I like octopus and squid. 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Scrawler Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Just now, spike382 said: I like octopus and squid. I'm not much for seafood, but I'll make an exception for takoyaki. 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spike382 Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 6 minutes ago, Page Scrawler said: I'm not much for seafood, but I'll make an exception for takoyaki. Takoyaki is freaking amazing. Once I figured out how to eat it without giving my mouth first degree burns 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Headstall Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 8 minutes ago, spike382 said: Those are alway more fun I'm told, cause at the end of the day you get to be the fun one with them. Yup. And I can nap when they go back home. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Headstall Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 10 minutes ago, spike382 said: At least the gay cowboys in your story had a proper ending Gary. I happen to be rereading "Larkspur: A Sidewinder Tale" tonight... along with @Albert1434 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Drew Espinosa Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 3 hours ago, spike382 said: Hello Pagey! I see you spreading the good word of Heartstopper merch on the board. I just realized with how inactive I've been on the site the last couple of years and missing a lot about it. I've never left, but I became a lurker again. Anyway, I was scrolling back through the posts from the last week and was pleasantly surprised to see @Drew Espinosa posting here on the regular again. Spikey! 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Drew Espinosa Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 58 minutes ago, Headstall said: Hey, spikey! We all missed @Drew Espinosa too... those glitter bombs not so much. Deal with it. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Drew Espinosa Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 (edited) 3 hours ago, Page Scrawler said: Aside from Heartstoppers, I've been watching Young Royals on Netflix. Two boys, one of them a prince, fall in love at a boarding school in Sweden. You're watching that just now? It came out last year! Edited May 2, 2022 by Drew Espinosa 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Headstall Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 2 minutes ago, Drew Espinosa said: Deal with it. Gonna have to buy another vacuum. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post spike382 Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 4 minutes ago, Drew Espinosa said: You're watching that just now? It came out last year! Yeah apparently we both missed it until very recently. At least I caught Heartstopper the day it was released haha. I'll be keeping an eye out for the next season of Young Royals though. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Scrawler Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 19 minutes ago, Drew Espinosa said: Spikey! Hey, Drew! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post raven1 Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 Good Morning/Evening All Sawasdee Khrup 🙏 Hope you all had a great weekend. I've already started Monday, but don't rush to catch up. So far it's nothing special. Hi Spike, I'm the newbie here. Terry 5 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
raven1 Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Hi Gary! Sawasdee Khrup! 🙏 How are things on your side of the planet? 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Drew Espinosa Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 3 minutes ago, raven1 said: I've already started Monday, but don't rush to catch up. So far it's nothing special. Stop showing off that you live 12 hours ahead of me! Hey, Terry! Sawasdee Khrup 🙏 2 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drew Espinosa Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 7 minutes ago, Page Scrawler said: Hey, Drew! Hey, Pagey! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albert1434 Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Night All my friends 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
raven1 Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Good day Page Got any new Max stories for us? BTW Max has good tastes in food. 😄 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Drew Espinosa Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 3 hours ago, spike382 said: I will say I prefer Heartstoppers Same. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drew Espinosa Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Just now, Albert1434 said: Night All my friends Goodnight Gorgeous! 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Headstall Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 3 minutes ago, raven1 said: Hi Gary! Sawasdee Khrup! 🙏 How are things on your side of the planet? Hey, Terry. It's been a rainy day on and off, but all is good here. 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post raven1 Posted May 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 2, 2022 2 minutes ago, Drew Espinosa said: Stop showing off that you live 12 hours ahead of me! Hey, Terry! Sawasdee Khrup 🙏 Not all of us can be god emperors, so we take whatever we can get. As one famous GE said, "Deal with it!" 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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