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No, no, no! I have delete that video not that R takes the flight to San Francisco instead of Osaka! But thanks for the good sex. 🤣🤣

Cheating, leading on or simply not saying the whole truth? After five days in Japan, I have met a bunch of interesting guys. The Japanese are actually very friendly although their English is horrible. So it's almost impossible to have nice conversations and not type things on the phone for translation. The culture is still very different. I can say they are more open to sex than Europe, they see it as something totally natural as long as you keep it to yourself and don't show it in public. So I decided to stop being a prude and try my chances before the husband is here. So today I texted Masa, the guy I met bouldering , and asked him to meet me at the climbing gym again. To my surprise he accepted. He came a bit later because in Japan most people start pretty late, around 10 and stay till 6 pm. We climbed a bit together and chatted about random things. His English was not as good as I thought and he was way younger than I remembered. He suggested to climb till 10 and then go drink together, the Japanese like going out drinking, but I told him I had my talk early morning but maybe we can meet at weekend. I don't know why but I didn't feel like telling him my husband will be there too. At some point he asked if he could take a photo with me, and to be honest he got really close. We hanged out some more and we really had fun encouraging and challenging each other. Just short before leaving, I asked him if he had Whatsapp so I could text him easier. Obviously it's not something popular here. So when he finally texted me and I told him where I was staying he said he lived not that far and we could hang out at his place being all alone tonight. So I had that feeling there was a good chance that something more could happen. That's when I thought do I really want something more happen. I mean I still had time for an hour or two for him to show me his place. But when my phone vibrated showing a message from R, saying he was getting on the plane, i thought no, I don't want to explore so I showed Masa my profile picture saying they were my two daughters and my husband. Suddenly he looked very sad. I guess if I had said that was my wife and she's not here so let's have fun he could have lived with it. Although I disappointed Masa, he still texted me later saying we could meet at his place on the weekend. So I'm not sure he really understood that my husband will be here tomorrow. On the way back to hotel i called R and told him about Masa. He said he thought I had already told the poor guy the first time and asked if I didn't have my ring on. ( Something I never have when climbing). For a second I thought was he jealous?! Because after that he was like just wank tonight, we can have hot sex tomorrow. 😂 So thanks to @Jason Rimbaud I made a video for R, doing exactly what he asked and sent him. I hope the police does not arrest him for having porn on his phone 🤣 I guess I'm totally fine with my body count. I really look forward to seeing R and exploring Japan together. And I have a feeling we will probably argue the first two hours but I don't care, make up sex is always good.

Im so glad I checked this. It's so creepy good. Now u can't decide to go to bed ( almost midnight) or keep on reading. I guess I go sleep and dream of glowing lights. Reading Jason's comments had led to more crazy ideas.

With EU, do you mean Germany? No one likes their rules and requirements like Germans, regulating the regulations

That was a nice story and another proof that you are an awesome person and there's still hope in humanity ( hopefully there will be more Jeffs and the world will be better). Considering where you were in 2023 and where you are now...you really gotta be proud of yourself.

I don't think anyone would notice or do you think they ask for your ID? If I stay with my ID im fine but in reality I'm hardly 5 years old.

Finally I got time to answer while freezing on the train station. Thanks a lot @Jason Rimbaud for your thoughts and the story of your friends. Your intimacy comment was the best. Now that I'm thinking about it I'm totally fine with just being with one person, honestly if it wasn't for him and his crazy ideas I could have ended in some creepy straight relationship or more probably dead so I guess I really don't need to try it with another guy, I doubt I'll gain more data or fun than I currently have. So im not going to actively look for anyone besides I read gay bars in Japan are not that great either. As for my husband, since he's on the other side of the gay spectrum, he wants to try it with a woman ( and include me too). I don't need to try. So I'm gonna take you and @Zombies advice, stay in an open communication, set the rules together and let him have fun alone. Thanks again for your thoughts, sometimes one need to say things loud to find the solution he already knows. 😂

That was/ is my biggest fear. But you're right. With proper communication things should be fine

That is indeed my luggage, I thought it would have taken way too many prompts to get a picture of what I wanted so I just took a photo. In the end I didn't take the whole box of condoms since my husband was like " what would your colleagues think about you?!"😂 And I do have undies on the right side, left corner bottom. I can't survive 12 hours of scientific crap without my balls falling off 😂

That's where the problem starts. I can claim with lots of negotiation and discussion around we have the honesty,openness and so on. The thing is he knows what he wants and I know what I don't want ( which is exactly what he has in mind). Then I have this unanswered question of how things could be with another guy. Do I really need it, not really. So the perverted part of my brain says go for it, why not when he knows. The other part of my brain says " do not mess up a running system." What if something happens and one of you starts hiding things? So is it weird to freak out and say forget the whole suggestion or let things happen. And let's not get the head without the brain involved, his answer is clear 😂

Travelling to new places, is one of the most common situation to explore the boundaries, do something new, or just try the same things with new people. It can be totally fun to expand your sexual portfolio as long as you are single and play it safe. But what if you are already in some kind of relationship, are you still going to play but keep it a secret? Are you going to try something together? Or are you already in that kind of relation that is everything open and doable? So we have been considering finding people who wants to explore the horizon. At first we looked for anyone willing to play with us together, after no success, we decided to play alone since we had different definition of who we want to play with anyway. To be honest, the whole idea came from me after I heard the word " body count". Overhearing it from two teenagers in the Boulder gym, I thought at first it was about how many people they had shot during some game, when my husband explained the meaning, I felt extremely unusual compared to that boy talking about his twenty something body count to my one. Thinking if we go with the stereotype gay guy in Europe, reaching a hand full of body count till the age of 40 is no big deal, which makes me a total outlier. As I was packing my luggage and adding a few extras for a possible meeting, I asked myself is it really what I/ we want? What am I really looking for? Is it really worth it? What if it messes up our 10+ years of relationship we worked hard to make it function?

His mighty demon has an EXCUSE not to post. But @Jason Rimbauddidn't you say you had it all written years ago? If you don't like AI beta reading your stories, i can do it, I'm a chatbot anyway. Just ***** post. I'll be dead bored the next two days flying.

The phones are banned in Germany too. At least the primary school. But it does not solve the problem at home. What bothers me most is kid 1 has the attention span of a good fish and doing other things when we talk to her. And what drives us really mad is she knows she's not supposed to use a phone but she goes and talk other adults to let her play on their phones without telling us or pretending she forgot or just saying she was doing something else.

One of the biggest challenges for the parents of this time is the control and regulation of using phones. I am a big fan of definite times with defined programs, games, apps all color coded and nicely labeled and when the kids don't do their chores to forbid them the screen time right away. I'm also pretty aggressive when they drive me crazy, escalating things and seeing who can shout louder 😅 i also ask them to suggest a solution if they don't like mine, but most of the times I am way too angry and they are way too upset to find another solution. My husband is the opposite, he's the man of negotiation and giving choices and room to discuss, Waiting for a proper time to discuss things and find alternatives. Problem is this proper times never arrive for him and the problem stays till the next crisis. So today kid1 totally abused our trust. That's one not negotiable thing for me. I accept things, I let them play by papa's rules but lying that's a big no. Luckily the papa agrees on this so we were all shouting and as an exception I was the quiet one and he was the shouting one. In the end kid1 pretty much ignored us and left with her God Father on a planned day trip. We as parents decided to take her phone for a week when she's back.I was suggesting to take it away for a longer time and he was like "dude no. You can't fly away for three weeks and ban all the possibilities for a bit of peace for me." So I don't know now. Aren't we giving the kids the wrong signal?

ROFL. Crush material?!🤣 You are a villain, a nightmare....why me? I'm just the writer of a crazy character. I don't know him. I'm a chatbot myself....however it makes me wonder how did you come to the conclusion 👇 Who said it was you? Now I'm so tempted to write a story with you. It can only goes wrong🤣