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Comicality was the first story I discovered when I was 15 years old. It also led to my discovery of Gay Authors, a place where I was able to connect with gay people for the first time from a very small, rural corner of Michigan. I admit I have not read a story of his since then, but I wanted to say thank you for allowing me to discover this wonderful place where I found a community that led me to accept my own sexuality. I have no doubt many others discovered the community here in the same way. May he rest in peace.

OMG. Y'all are not living until you've watched Daily Grace.

There are so many things that I want to say about Vic to really highlight the great guy he was. That would probably take days. I will however say that Vic played a very important role in my own life, as far as coming to terms with my sexuality. Vic was one of the very first people I met when I joined GA, all the way back when I was 15 years old. Vic doesn't even know, but he was the first guy who I ever met that was gay, who I liked and felt comfortable enough to share my personal issues with. Throughout the course of our friendship. Vic has always been there to offer me advice, comedic relief (he was one of the funniest, sassiest guys I've ever met) and his kind heart. I remember when I had just turned 17 and found my first love. A lot of people go through the motions of having their first relationship blind. Vic was a key element in getting me through all of the unknown feelings and emotions of that time in my life. One particular day, I was left stranded somewhere and my boyfriend at the time was living in a park, because his parents kicked him out. I had no idea what to do, and I was terrified. Vic really stepped up to the plate for me that day. Got in touch with me, provided me with a list of phone numbers of people in my area who I could contact to help me in my time of need. And he really did. If it weren't for Vic's selflessness and will to always help me, I'm not sure what could have happened that day. It hasn't really struck me hard that he's gone so far. I know it will, though. Eight years later and he's really gone. The only thing I can really say at this point, is I hope he's the first face I see when I make it to the big house. Thanks for always being a light in a dark place, Vic. You will be sorely missed by many, many people. Love you, V-Dawg. Love, P-Cakes

Sorry for the late reply, I was away from GA for a while But thank you everyone for remembering and wishing me a happy birthday. Especially you, Krista K my favorite little butch lady <3

This one is my favorite. The feeling in the way you worded this was perfect to me. The vibe I got from this was kind of the beginning stage of an intense relationship, where nothing is spoken, yet somehow you both know what should have/could have been said. Perhaps just enjoying each others company simply out of loving one another. Really felt this. Thanks for sharing

I highly enjoy the softer side of Krista xD but really, it's a great poem that expresses strong feelings between two lovers.

This is really powerful. Really expresses the true emotion of losing someone, and all of the different aspects of coping that loss. I really enjoy the parts about seeing him surfing, seeing him in the shadows, etc. because it makes it feel as though the reader is really going through the motions of losing someone, and being trapped in all their memories. Great!

Was this written on the Boston marathon incident? Great poem. I feel emotional after this.

Actually, I agree. I love going into the park and taking photos... Especially during the winter months. It's an interesting vibe seeing everything look so empty. Good one!

There are a few things that I have managed to find that effectively work to help me manage, and cope with my stress. 1.Running 2.Working out 3.Writing 4.Music Actually, music mostly. It's pretty much my best outlet. This video in particular has always helped me feel better. So I thought I'd share it, and maybe y'all can share your methods as well.

I often find myself looking at the past instead of the future, too. I think actually it was you who told me to stop doing that, because we always remember the past to be better than it actually is.... Or maybe I read it somewhere, who knows. Either way, no one knows exactly how long they have to live, or how many years they have left. I say just live in the present, with the mindset that you'll never die, but seize each day as if it's your last. And I am also sorry to hear about your cancer.

I'm actually not angry at all

I disagree, and honestly find this to be quite a ridiculous opinion full of assumptions. I don't ever read messages from other users and interpret it based on my mood. I interpret it for what it is. There are certain ways to communicate with other individuals via internet that allow you to properly convey your feelings and emotions, without the recipient taking it the wrong way. If people couldn't do that - if they couldn't express tone, emotion, etc. in their writing, how do you think books would be so widely popular? And how would anyone connect with a poem? Maybe you should do some research on how to communicate with others on the internet before throwing around assumptions that really don't make much sense. Also, I don't think you should be telling anyone about the ''stern'' messages you've received from the staff. They were sent to you in a PRIVATE message for a reason, just saying. It seems to me that you have a lot of issues with the staff on GA, and I'm not sure why, but it's really not forum discussion appropriate, so you might want to think about toning it down a bit.

Marshall from United States of Tara

Narnia, Hogwarts Middle Earth. No forreal tho. But I'd prefer to visit Middle Earth AFTER the Orcs have been slayed, thanks.