Great article. Interestingly, I had a situation where I kinda caved to what readers wanted. I had written Murder in the Woods for one of the anthologies with a major cliffhanger for an ending. Readers were in an uproar and several asked for a sequel. So I wrote a type of sequel for the next anthology. It wasn't the original story that I wanted for that anthology and honestly, I didn't love it, but thought it was passable enough. The reception was lukewarm. My ride and dies were there to comment, but only 3 commenters from the first story commented on the second, and none of the ones who asked for a sequel did. I'm not sorry that I wrote Murder in the City, but consider it a lesson learned: If I don't love it, neither will my readers.
I think it's fine to have a preference, as long as that doesn't mean you expect a writer to cater to that preference. Because if it's not what the writer wants to write, it's a safe bet the reader won't enjoy it either. It shows.