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MichaelS36

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  1. Communication is something you seem to be practicing all ready. Start as you mean to go on. Best wishes to you both.
  2. Thanks very much, Parker.
  3. Thank you, Kitt. Merry Christmas.
  4. Thanks Chris.
  5. Thanks, Reader. he is everything xo
  6. I'm glad, tim. xo
  7. Thanks, Thorn.
  8. I thought I knew what love is. I thought I knew when I met tim. I thought I knew when he agreed to marry me. But walking behind him down the street, watching his such-long legs supporting his perfect ass and his black leather jacket sitting just at his sweetly slim hips, made me feel it deeply. This brilliant, sexy, funny, and deeply compassionate man was mine. Then he turned and he smiled at me. It was such a smile, it lit my soul with the brilliance of a thousand suns. I wondered what I'd done to deserve him in my life. tim is a good boy. At dinner he was so calm, so relaxed and happy, when the waiter offered a drink, he ordered a glass of chardonnay. Like you would. Except in our lifestyle, he should have asked me. he realised and looked to me, eyes wide. But today he'd been so happy, so in the moment, I smiled and waved away the small infraction. he knew … that was enough. And I knew. And I know and I hope in that moment, he knew just what he means to me.
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    Fear

    It was. The man never had a real reason to learn more. We ask a lot of people, expect a lot. Once we choose to 'come out' we announce it to people who may never have considered it and expect them to react positively immediately. Not everyone can. Sometimes we need to understand that we've shocked them, that maybe they will need some time. In my own case, my parents accepted my announcement as they always had everything. "we love you, be the man we brought you up to be." In tim's case, he was 15 and out the door and on the street, in under an hour. he spent the next 7 years there. More often reaction to the news … I am Gay … or my lover is HIV will shock and surprise parents. They are immediately thrown in PARENT mode, to protect. It's their job, what they do. I am the same way, as tim's husband and Dom … I will protect him at any cost. So I do understand Clay's reaction. He needed some time to figure it out. And like a good father, he did.
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    Fear

    No, you F'g do not. Not if you are any kind of a parent. HIV isn't a game. My husband is undetectable, has been for years. I won't allow games to be played when it comes to his meds. I learned long ago about how he copes with things and pretending it isn't happening is how he does it (he comes from a background of abuse). So, I get it. Our answer is that I prepare his meds so that he does not have to. All he needs to do is take them. It works, he is happy, and I don't need to worry. But if I was a father of a Gay child, I'd be damn worried about HIV. Even more so if my kid brought home a lover who had it. There would need to be some serious discussions around that whether my child was underage, or not.
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    Penance

    You're a good and respectful person. I took your comment in the spirit it was likely meant. I did not feel disrespected. I learned a long time ago most people think our lifestyle is freaky and weird. I don't care. People can say what they please. Many, while they do not understand it, respect our choices. They respect that while he is my sub, tim is the most important thing in my world. I've heard it all, so a friend joking around does not hurt. But as I said privately, I appreciate what you've said and why.
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    Ninety Days

    Oh Wayne, please don't call me Sir.
  13. MichaelS36

    Ninety Days

    LOL … you mean burned grilled cheeses??? Someone's been talking, LOL.
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    Ninety Days

    Give yourself time. It is a shock. I was given a piece of paper with 3 sample meals. If I didn't have tim .. honestly I don't think I'd be doing very well. he has been my saviour during this. I am a very lucky man. You and Kevin will find your way. A bit of cream one day isn't the end of you. Yeah we have to watch our diet carefully. But instead of beer every night, I now have one at Christmas, maybe go crazy and have a 2nd on New Year's Eve.
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    Ninety Days

    It's a shock at first. But you will likely find, since you are already health conscious, you don't have to change a huge amount. I gave up a lot when I was diagnosed. But tim really saved me. I've tried and enjoyed things I would never have considered. Seriously? Zucchini noodles? But yes, I eat and enjoy them. He comes to me often ... will you try this? I say yes, because why the hell not try? Go for it Wayne. This is just another challenge. Isn't that what life is?
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    The Raven

    Personally have issues with using Families in stories. These people are not kind or benevolent. But, that's my experience talking. However, I may bow out. We will see.
  17. A terrific story, Thorn. It felt alive and rich. I appreciate all the hard work. I sort of have some knowledge of how much work goes into a complicated story like this. Really well done.
  18. Oh! We are on page 666. No screaming, don't panic.
  19. I am not an early morning person. tim goes to bed and I am usually up until 2 or 3am … It's just how I am. So I understand.
  20. tim regularly gets up then to write and then go to work.
  21. Yes, a nap. he was up at 5am for work. I'll finish your story, Thorn. You should be proud of that work. It's very well done.
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    Joe

    Wayne, be a good boy and finish what you start.
  23. You did a brilliant job. And you're right, it is an excellent story. I am glad your day improved, molly pop.
  24. This was a great story. Very nice review, @mollyhousemouse.
  25. MichaelS36

    Gord

    Great singer, The Hip were a great band. Damn shame. But he was an interesting man, did a lot and wrote a lot. He was a good Canadian, he didn't always like what went on around him and he said so. Nice tribute, boy.
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