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Okay, sure. Blame it on the alcohol.

You started it, calling people an “expert” at Seaman….what was I supposed to think?

Hell yeah, he would, lol!! ( ) ⬅️ That’s a hug for you {I hate the hug emoticon, lol}.

Or just saying out loud what others are thinking?

LMAO!! Gotta get as much as you can for a healthy diet!!

Seamen or semen? ⚖️ Eh, po-tay-to/po-tah-to, 😄

Carson mean mugging & dead fishing Loren was THE BEST, LMAO!!

I thought so too. Is it Monday yet? 😬

Nothing says “we are SO over” like a changed lock code, lol!!

“I wonder if Jay would want to swap mattresses. It doesn’t matter. My mattress might be better, but it’s garbage without him on it.” Loren will go wherever Jay wants at this point, lol.

All of Loren’s support system have stepped back to let him figure this out, that alone should tell him something. Jay’s Loren bullshit meter is precisely fine tuned….Loren can’t just go big or go home, he has to do this the right way or walk away. “I’ve been doing some thinking.” Is it Monday yet? Oh, and yay to Derek and Danielle’s impending parenthood 👏; I wonder how the senior Petermeyers will treat their first grandchild or if this will change their view of Derek, as he’s providing the first grandchild.

The whole situation saddens me….I can well understand the frustration with Alec yet I don’t think people get how insidious anxiety can be, it alters damn near every decision one makes in one’s life; they can want the best but the fear of the worst is paralyzing and self destructive. I think that our esteemed author is trying to shed a little light on the depths of the murky, layered nightmare that one can live with & triumph over in this condition, (Alec and River both have made strides in their lives and kudos to them for that). Finn gets it, he still wants Alec knowing the extreme head case he is. I believe a compromise is here….I’m still hoping for their happily ever after. 🤞 ❤️

Jesus. The best sex and the worst morning after. I wanted to press “love” & “sad” at the same time. ❤️💔 I want this to work out for them so much.

Looking at your GIF & seeing you’re in a Phoebe mood: “My eyes. MY EYES!”

It’s not regional; Grew up in the northeast of the U. S. & I’ve heard it before, lol.

Whew. 😆

This story has me tempted to but not yet. Full disclosure, @Mrsgnomie, I’m a coconut lover in all but pina colada. 🧉🚫

✋ Fellow coconut lover 🥥 ❤️ 😊

“But I can’t stop, and neither can she. We sit and watch for a while longer, happy to be bystanders in this little world of theirs.” “Corey nods toward me and Courtney, who have tried to keep out of the way as much as possible.” These phrases had me reflecting on how lucky Loren and Lars are in the partners they chose….given the dysfunction they came from, it is divine providence that their “type” is a tolerant, nurturing, no bullshit supporter, when they could have easily gravitated to narcissistic abusers.

It was SO SWEET to see the reunion with Cole, Corey and Isaac with Lars and I think it was best encapsulated with a paraphrase of Jay's line: “….they’re just good at picking up where they left off.” It was also good that the holes of credibility were touched upon in the reunion between the guys, as well as with Jay and Courtney….it’s easy to clearly see things as an adult that you will miss as a child; however much bullshit Lars was fed by his parents, they were his parents and I daresay he loved them-who would want to think their parents are capable of what they did to Loren? The senior Petermeyer’s reason for canonizing Jay is touchingly understandable….if Jay was an only child. Why bother having more if you can’t appreciate them? To touch upon my previous post-witnessing the milestones and evolutions in his friend’s lives pointed out that no matter how much progress Loren made in therapy, there is still a hurt little boy in there afraid to truly trust in a long term relationship; if he wants to keep Jay, he’ll have do something about that or let him go (at least the senior Petermeyers would be happy about that, lol).

Wow. While remaining open minded to all possibilities reading this story, I have to admit, I did not expect this fork in the road between Jay and Loren now but it does makes sense. You know how right before someone gives up on a belief or idea, they make a REALLY big stink about their position? How important and right it is? How nothing and no one will alter their belief? That’s how I view Loren regarding marriage. I won’t speculate on his stance toward parenthood but I think he can see himself happily married to Jay and the idea terrifies him to the marrow of his bones. *SIGH* What a sad situation but like I said before, it does makes sense. I hope they can come back from this.

Made him a big ol’ hypocrite asking Alec about him and Finn.

Please….give him tonight!!