Kevin, I do happen to think there are some situations in which sex without condoms is acceptable. However, those are a very slim minority. It requires a level of honesty, commitment, and trust that many are unfortunately uncapable of in today's society. Thus, people often risk their lives by engaging in unsafe sex with someone they trust. I will not mention names, but one of our members was in a situation where he narrowly escaped being diagnosed with HIV. His former partner was HIV+. Fortunately, the guy who dodged the bullet was strictly top. Otherwise, he definitely would have been infected. I can say that the member was not me.